You could not join the army. You need to weigh whats more important to you.

If you can't go through a long distance relationship again, and you have to join the army, then you have to break up with her. If you can't go through a long distance relationship, and you can't be without this girl, then you cannot join the army. I think, however, that if you want it badly enough you can do the long distance thing. Love triumphs over all. If you are in love, and you really have to go away, then you will be able to stay together. Just keep your head together while you are away and for god's sake don't cheat on her.

3 days ago she broke up with me and it's been hell since so I geust the next thing to do it join the army. :(

Whatever happens it is for the best. I am a strong believer that what is meant to be will be, and what is meant to be is best for us all.

If she broke up with you I doubt it will work..Its very difficult to put broken cup together. Army will offer you perfect opportunity to forget her.

I found out lastnight that she was cheating on me for 2 weeks before she dropped me and to make things more messed is that it was with one of my good mates. I still want to be friends but at the same time I wish for her death. So I think I not go to the army till I get over this because if I get a gun in my hand at the moment I think someone could die.