Girl dont even feel bad. Luckily I never got pregnant but the guy I lost it to is in prison for homicide too. Boy was that a mistake. I know you feel terrible but just dont think about it. You really, really dont need this guy at all. Just take care of your baby even though it is from a dummy. Im here if you need me!

I know, I was ashamed like oh my gosh I cant believe I ever liked him! When I was with him I was 17 and he did it this year, so I was never around him good thing. Hes scum but im glad I dont have to deal with him. They have to deal with god. They took a life that wasnt theirs.

Not me, but some guy he didnt like. When he was with me he not violent. He was a rapper and nice. So I dont know. I dont even like thinking about him. But jordan has to. I think you just just say you had a sperm donor!

Yeah, he didnt do it, but he was there and in sc, the law states.."hands of one, hands of all.." so basically, if you were there and u knew it was going to happen then you basically killed too...The guy that shot him, got 25 years for manslaughter, and the other girl and chris are still charged wtih homicide, but haven't gone to court yet..
Jordan

Well then he deserves to be there whether or not he had the gun. He was an accomplice by knowing what was going to occur and he knew the other guy had a firearm and knew what was planned. He could have said no but he was there.I cant belive people can be so cruel.

I really dont want him in mine and the baby's life....He is a jerk...I've lived for seventeen years not ever seeing, talking or having any contact with my father and it doesn't affect me...I like just having one parent...Its eassier

It is, but sometimes a father figure is good too. To be able to teach the things a mom cant. Like with my sister, jose is there to be the father figure and the baby loves him. So you dont really need the dad there, but maybe an uncle or something can help. Well you cant get him for child support, but if you do get welfare, then he has to pay it once hes out. Not you, he needs to repay the government.

Hes outta jail(for now)--they got him on house arrest...So, I can get child support...But, I don't want to b/c if I do then he has a right to see the child and I dont want my baby around him...I kow that that sounds bad, but yall dont know this boy like I do...Once we broke up, he started doing heavy drugs again and I dont want my child around that. My ex boyfriend, he is being really sweet about the whole thing and he wants to be there when I have it...Hes being really supportive and he hates chris too but ill keep yall posted...
Jordan

Well actually you can get child support but he might not be granted visitation unless it is supervised. You can explain to the judge the situation and they will side with you. Just explain his backround and why you need support but refuse to have hte baby in a bad environment. If he chooses not have visitation at all, then its better because the less he visits, the more he pays. So it can work. My mom does that stuff for girls who dont know about the system and she tells me about it! Lol. So I know. I just some forms and a letter and I think you can collect asap. But if you really dont want the money, than thats fine too. I just wanted you to know you can work around that.

Oh my god,u gotta keep ur baby away from this guy-he is evil & he looks horrible 2.I hope u can do it on ur own cos ur better off doing that then being with some1 so evil that they cud take part in something like this.I hope he goes down 4 a very long time.
P.S. No offence but I hope ur baby dont look like him either!!!

Lol liz your so funny!

Thank u!!! I try!!

Gosh,im so surprised about the amount of people on here who've never met their fathers-what kind of men r these people if they can abandon their families like that

My mom said that when she told my "dad" that she was pregnant he left and moved out of state...A few years ago, she tracked him down and found out that he was living in west virginia and she asked me if I wanted to see him and I said no...Chris just woke up one morning and woke me up out of a dead sleep and said, "i'm not happy with you anymore, call your mom and go home...", it broke my heart but then I realized if he is gonna do something like that then he doesn't deserve to be around our child...I don't see how he can live with that on his consciense though..He did call me a while back, before I had my # changed and said that if I didnt' let him see his child he would take me to court and fight for custody...I was like, whatever, look at your record, you think that some body in there right mine is gonna let you have custody of our child...? For some reason he thinks he can get it...He can't prove that I am an unfit mother though...I don't do drugs (like he does)--the only thing I come close to doing that is bad is drinking caffeine sometimes, for gods sakes...I can't honestly say that I love him or ever did...I love my child tho and he will not take her from me....
Jordan