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Q: I Need Some Advice!! Please Respond
asked by: want2b on October 4th, 2005
Experienced User
Hi,
my boyfriend and I are ttc and I have some questions on my probability on being pregnant. Here's the scenerio I recently went of of the pill on 9/11. I have had my period twice this month. The first time 9/11-9/16, this one was normal. The second time was 9/20-9/25, this one was really light and was pinkish and mucus like(day1-3) then it changed to brownish and thick(day3-4) then really red and heavy(day 4-5). I was scheduled to ovulate on 9/22 - 9/27. I had sex on 9/9, 9/10, 9/11, 9/16, 9/17, 9/18, 9/23, 9/24, 9/25, 9/28, 10/1, 10/2. I did have sex during my period. Each time he did cum but now always inside of me. I have taken a pregnancy test on 9/14, 9/24, 9/29, 10/2, 10/3, all of which have came back neg. This is really depressing :( I have some of the symptoms but am not sure if I am imagining them because I want to be prego or are actually symptoms, I have been feeling nausea, bloated, tired(extreme), cravings for food, cramping, my lower back is killing me and my back is not out of whack, a bubbling feeling in my abdomen, and my nipples tingle but not all the time.

Here's the questions: first, what are the chances of me actually being pregnant? Second, how soon should I test again? The neg. Are really getting me down. If I were still on the pill I would be having my period on 10/8.

Please reply!!

Baby dust to all those ttc xoxo
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purple333
replied on October 7th, 2005
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Chill & Be Patient!!!!
Even if you've only been on the pill for a short time it can take several months to get out of your system & for your hormones & cycle to get back into a natural flow.

The more you stress the less likely you are to concieve - so relax, don't have sex every day as it weakend the sperm thereby reducing the chance of you falling pregnant. Leave about 36- 48 hours to give the sperm time to develop "six packs"!!!! Also getting your guy to have sex constantly in order to concieve puts alot of pressure on him to "perform" & this can have a negative affect on the sperm too.

So relax & enjoy trying.
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want2b
replied on October 7th, 2005
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Thanks for your advice, i'll try telling derek about it.
I know that I shouldn't stress I just really want this to happen. And as of right now sex timing is usuallly not an option. My b/f is finishing his summer job on road construction working heavy machienery, so our "sex schedule" is wed. Nights, fri. Nights, sat & sun. Am & pm. There really is no pressure, because after being away from each other for a while it just is a must to be "with" each other.
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purple333
replied on October 7th, 2005
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I know alcohol is illegal in the usa until you're 21 - but that said - many of my friends who had trouble conceiving found that going out for a romantic meal (can be a picnic under the stars) & having a couple of glasses of wine - just enough to relax you & also too make you more "randy" worked miracles>>>> 9 months later baby arrived.
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kattladi
replied on October 30th, 2005
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Trying to Get Pregnant
Hey i'm new at this so please bare with me. I have poly cystic ovarian syndrome(pcos) and my fiance and I miscarried our twins about 2 years ago. My obgyn put me an bc and glucophage afterwards to regulate my hormones and now my hormones have finally leveled out and we are trying to concieve. I only have a small window of opportunity before everything goes crazy again. I've been told that my chances of concieving are small.We've had no luck so far. So I would like to know if any of you ladies can relate to this disease and if you may have any advice for me. Anything I want a child more than anything. I don't want to give up, but I can't afford all of the fertillity drugs and not have a guarantee.
Thanks for listening
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CASEY217
replied on November 22nd, 2005
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Whats ttc lol if I might ask???
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CASEY217
replied on November 22nd, 2005
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Nvm nvm lol I got it
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