Well some women can be tighter then others, and if she hasnt had sex often, or when she did there are long times in between, she can still be really tight, so when you enter you can be stretching her a little, causing some tearing, which can cause her to bleed a little, and be sore, some women don't bleed at all, some women bleed alot, everyone is different, she shouldnt be sore for too long, if it goes on too long, she might want to get checked out, otherwise I think she should be alright. Best of luck : )

Oh no no..She wasn't sore for very long..Maybe an hour or so..But she stil enjoyed it much so..I was just wondering since I am unable to take the virginity from my girlfriend..Which still upsets me.. What it's like for a woman's first time..I've just heard it's suppose to be a bloody mess...Like the o'l expression (pop the cherry) thanks

Well that is really sweet, shows you really care for her, though there is nothing you can do to change the fact if someone is a virgin or not. But im sure it was very special to her, and means a lot more to her then any other man shes been with, I totally understand you though, because it upsets me knowing my bf has had other partners, and hes my first, but you just kind of have to understand that they had a different life back then, and they didn't know you, so just kinda have to accept it, but the knowing that you really are the special person to them, is good enough : )

To answer your question I honestly think that some people over exaggerate when they think of a girls first time. Of course there may be some blood, sometimes none at all, but if there is it shouldn't soak the sheets or anything. A girl's first time is different for each girl. Some girls experience a lot of pain some none at all, some enjoy the first time and others don't, although I doubt too many actually enjoy it it can be uncomfortable and like I said painful. Honestly when I read "a bloody mess" I thought of some kind of homicide scene lol which it really isn't, its just some blood from being stretched and torn the first time. Also I think it would depend on the size of the guy. If her first time was with someone who wasn't all that big and her second time the guy was big of course theres going to be a little more pain than the first time and some stretching because of the size. Hope that helps.

So basically, when I made her bleed a lil' bit, it was kinda just like her first time over again...In a way... See, it's sad to say, but I wanted to be the first one to make her bleed..Lol I do not mean that in a mean way...Just cuz it's special ya know.. Neway. Missshortie, that is the main problem in my g/f and my relationship. We have been dating for 6 months, but her past of three different guys still bothers me.. Not near as bad as it use to. But it still does. And it hurts her too when I think about it. But it's reassuring to know she's not thinkin of them..And the fact that she feels like i'm her first ya know. Neway..Thanks again for the info every1..

I started dating my current bf in college... And I knew he'd had girlfriends and sex before, but it didn't bug me at all, it was sort of like "yep, that's what people do... I might be a virgin and he not but that's good, becuse then at least one of us knows what we're doing!"

i didn't bleed at all during my first time, and it didn't hurt bad either.

We'd had sex about nine times (not all at once, lol) when he told me that now, he'd had more sex with me than all of his previous girlfriends combined! That made me feel so good.

Don't fret about her previous boyfriends. They are "previous", remember? She's with you now. That's what mtters. Just play it safe, use protection, etc, bla bla. I don't wanna see you or her on the pregnancy or abortion forum!

I did bleed some my first time, I think it was because my boyfriend was rather large .............. Sometimes I wish I could have one more time with him, now that we both know what we are doing, lol!!!! As crazy as this sounds, it hurt, but it hurt in a good way. Know what I mean? I can still remember how sex with him felt. I can also remember how one of my other boyfriends kisses felt. Sorry for the ramble, im just mising old times ................. And boyfriends, lol

Well, my first time didn't hurt really, and I didn't bleed. I have had sex only like 5 times. The last time I did it I bled though but I think it is just cause things got really rough lol. I hurt for a day or two after I had sex my 1st 2nd and 5th time. There were only three guys though I though I was in love and I waas trying to get over him in a not so right way. The sizes did very though. I didn't bleed alot though I think I just got tore really bad. So I bled for about a day and a half. Then the day after I started my period it sucked alot lol. Sorry I rambled but yeah.

I bled just a tiny bit the first time that I had sex. It wasn't like anything major, just a spot or so. It did hurt though, my boyfriend is large (i think personally lol), and it took forever to get it in the first time!! I don't know if it is like this for everyone though.

No, my bf is average, and he got in easily the first time; we did it spoon style. That position is much less painful for the girl.

When I had sex for the first time it really hurt, but it was a gd hurt if that makes ne sense it made it feel real and also during it he was checkin to see if I was ok and being gentle with me. I understand y u are feelin the way u are - I dont no how it feels becasue we were bth virgins but im sure she feels like this is her first time and technicali it is wiv the bloke she loves. So dnt wrry bout that! And no there aint much difference than the first time other than now shes in love!

Hope u sort this one out! Take care

I never bled. It depends on the woman. Some are tighter. Some rip their hymen from other things. I find if you go a while (even a week) without sex you can be sore afterwards (especially if you weren't turned on enough for sex). Or I found if you go a week and then have sex a lot in one night, you can be sore from that too.

im 14 and the guy i loved moved and he stuttered when i think he was gonna tell me he liked me i liked him since i met him what do i do i have a friend that has his email and phone number and such should i call him what if he doesnt like me back im so confused help!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey being i was a virfin and my wife wasnt i let her know it hurt me i couldnt ever take her virginity so my wife tells me her first time hurt but only bled a little she also had sex with her first parter 50 times and had two miscariges after our first time she said it hurt mor and she bleed like her first time and was soar too i just wanna know if this is true or if she is just tellin me to make me feel better

Hey...I'm actually a virgin and considering sex soon with my bf of almost a year. Really nervous...any pointers??