Joined: 17 Sep 2005 Posts: 3 Location: New York city
Low Selfesteem :'( Posted: 09-30-05 21:41pm
Do u guys no how it feels wen like some1
keeps critisizing u all the time that
hurts sooo much like its been eating me up
inside and every single day I think like
maybe it will get better but it also
doesnt help wen I get abused my mom always
treats me like caca and I feel loike its
just me out of every1 it hurts like I try
tto tell my friends but I feel like im
bring annoying becuz it haooends soo much.
But can u guys tell me wut u think I
should do ? Thanks
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lilmissy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2005 Posts: 6
Posted: 10-01-05 15:01pm
My mother was the same way with me. She
told me I was worthless, that I would
never amount to anything and that she
wished she had aborted me. I attempted
suicide 3 times between the ages of 13 and
15. So I know how you feel.
What your mother is doing is not right,
and it's not your fault.
You are a smart, capable and worthy person
and she is wrong to say these things.
Your mother needs to go to counselling to
learn how to cope with her anger. Right
now, the best thing you could do is find
an adult you trust and tell them what's
happening. You need an aunt or uncle who
can help you, and maybe even let you stay
with them for awhile. If she won't go to
counselling, you need to talk to an adult
in social service who can help you get
some additional help. You are going to
need to talk to a counsellor, because what
she's doing to you is hurting more than
just your feelings. I could have been
dead right now. I don't want you to end
up the same way.
