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Q: Mesege to All Teen Parent Or Want to Be Teen Parents

asked by: pao b on September 30th, 2005

New User

:d hello well I have read alot of the other stories and I could not connect with any of them I was pregnant at age 14. I had my son 3 months after I turned 15 I love my son to this date I do, he is the light of my life but it has been so hard to get to the point where I am right now my parents did not support me she (my mom) kicked me out. So out of options I moved in with my babys father that has been okay until now that I realized that I am not happy with him and I can not live with him the rest of my life. I am 19 now I will be graduating and receiving my pharmacy tech certification in june 2006 so then I know I could support my baby.

Any way the point of my story is that even though having a child at 13,14or even 15 may seem like a fun walk in the park there is road blocks but things can be done if you are already pregnant keep going think positive and you will suceed, but if you are a teen and you are not pregnant enjoy life because god will give you a child when he thinks you are ready.
I am sorry if I bore anyone

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shortygot_ashorty

replied on October 5th, 2005

Experienced User

You arent boring me! I think that was one of the most real things that ive heard in here yet. Way to go for telling it like it is and really.... Alot of girls should here it. There are alot of girls in here who are ttc and they are sooo young (13, 14, 15, ...)i think that all of us should be responsable...But sh*t does happen. I just hope that girls will listen to what u have to say considering you've been through it. Congratulations on graduating and your pt certification!!!! Alot better than I have faith in for myself.

pao b

replied on October 5th, 2005

New User

Thanks

Thank you for replying I though nobody had even read it so thanks alot.Good luck with your baby touch,after he or she is born one qhestion how old are you?

shortygot_ashorty

replied on October 6th, 2005

Experienced User

17 still tooooo young but a lil better than i've been hearing about. And no, it wasn't planned lol

pao b

replied on October 6th, 2005

New User

You Are Right

You are right it is better you are about to graduate right. So you live in san antonio you are so lucky it is beautiful overtheir.Well compared to houston anyway three weeks are going to fly.Do you worry alot?Brace your self for months of little or no sleep man I hated those days I had like ten incidents where the bottle melted away on the stove cause I fell asleep. :d

shortygot_ashorty

replied on October 7th, 2005

Experienced User

Right....Lol wow thats crazy im gonna try to nurse for at least 3mts and that way ill be more used to having to be awake.

DaliciaLynn

replied on October 7th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

To be totally honest, I dont think anyones opinion affects any young girl who wants to have a baby, none of our opinions matter, until they have a baby and find out how hard it is for theirselves.

shortygot_ashorty

replied on October 7th, 2005

Experienced User

Tru
but wat I said was I just hope that they will listen considering shes been through it.

DaliciaLynn

replied on October 7th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

But her telling girls she had a baby at a young age just makes them think it's okay.

Some girls dont even care how hard it is, they just want a baby.

shortygot_ashorty

replied on October 8th, 2005

Experienced User

dalicialynn wrote:

but her telling girls she had a baby at a young age just makes them think it's okay.

Some girls dont even care how hard it is, they just want a baby.

you didnt listen to me.....
Like I said....... Tru
but I hope they will listen to her since shes been through it.

DaliciaLynn

replied on October 8th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

I did listen to you, was just telling you that it does make girls think its okay.

Mhm.

shortygot_ashorty

replied on October 8th, 2005

Experienced User

Uuuuuuuhu

diamondsz

replied on October 10th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

Re: Teen Pregnancy

shortygot_ashorty wrote:

you arent boring me! I think that was one of the most real things that ive heard in here yet. Way to go for telling it like it is and really.... Alot of girls should here it. There are alot of girls in here who are ttc and they are sooo young (13, 14, 15, ...)i think that all of us should be responsable...But sh*t does happen. I just hope that girls will listen to what u have to say considering you've been through it. Congratulations on graduating and your pt certification!!!! Alot better than I have faith in for myself.

okay life isnt that bad kids are extremely hard work though, if both of u are hungry the child comes first in everything and if you have to stay up 24 hrs because they are sick you do it but there are benefits. The only thing with being a teen mom is dad may not stay around as he want a life to live. I got married at 18 and had a child at 19 i'm a little bit more mature but if it wasnt for dad I wouldnt be able to do it. Im 21 now and expecting # 2 but I have a job and a house as well as my partner, im not trying to say not do it some ppl are meant for it but you should think it through first.

My daughter is a really good kid but the first 2 months killed waking up every 2 hrs sucked, and when their sick they cry and theirs nothing you can do to alleviate any of it but hold them and love them while they scream in ur ear lol!!! Honestly I enjoy it now cause she starting to talk and sing but you have to help them grow to this stage read up on kids before having them............

pao b

replied on October 14th, 2005

New User

Dalicialynn

You might think I am trying to tell other teens that it is okay but when I was still in high school I would go and talk to the other teens about teen parents you know from the lower grades and after hearing mine and other teen parents stories they would brake out in tears and talk to us about ways that they could prevent our present being their future.I am not trying to make it seem like it is or was easy because trust me it wasnt but I would not trade the experience for anything.I actually admire teens that like me went through with having their baby and are now raising them instead of killing them through abortion or giving them up for adoption and wondering for the rest of their life what happened to my child.Not that I am againts adoption I am just saying it would drive me crazy to know that my blood was out there somewhere with out me.

shortygot_ashorty

replied on October 16th, 2005

Experienced User

I agree

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