Women always love the bad boys- I have so many nice guy friends and they never get laid. I tell them to treat health forum like caca and they will get tons of ass but they just can't do it. The guys I know who dump the most jonny juice are the ones who verbally or phisically abuse their women. The hottest girl that I have ever met (she could have any nice and or rich guy she wanted) was hung up on this punk ugly ass kid for year because he treated her like crap cheated on her and beat the caca out of her weekly.

Anyway sounds like you are another dumb health forum who is only attracted to the guys that treat her like caca. You like the bad boy because he is a challenge, unpredictable, and probably very emotional in his blow ups. Let me guess, you think you can help him and change him into a good boyfriend. Wake up dunce. You are a gum dumpster to this guy. That being said, you are never going to be happy with the nice guy. Leave them both and find a new bad boy who treats you just well enough to keep you happy. Moral of the story- its not wrong to beat your health forum if they really want you to do it- are you listening nice guys?

Excuse me but I did not like what you said, and you can go f*ck yurself for all I care, I asked for advice, not for some health question to tell me how dumb I am..And don't even compare me to other girls if you don't know me..Get a doing it life

the dumba** is wrong again!!! You have no idea what you are talking about!!! Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha...You are such a loser...And because of that, you will never be in a happy serious relationship...You'll die alone being the loser you are!!! For your information...I'v dated both the bad boy and the nice guy...And i'm now happily married and have a baby with the nice guy!!! What the hell do you know??? Obviously not much!!! You go ahead and keep treating women like sh*t...It'll come back to bit you in the a**!!! Loser!!!!

Teresa

Okay...Now i'll give you some advice babyg!! Sorry had to vent there for a sec!!! Lol!!! Don't pay any attention to that fool!! I was with my first love for 2 years when we broke up and it took me 2 years to get over him. I was 15-16 yrs old and he was my first also. He wasn't a bad boyfriend though he did have the temper just like your ex!! Anyways when we broke up, he started dating someone else and it broke my heart....So I started dating someone else. I tried to convince myslef that I really loved my new boyfriend (knowing that my heart belonged to my ex) and started sleeping with him...Big mistake!! I thought that if I told myslef I loved my new guy and had sex with him i'd start to feel for him what I flet for my ex. Nope...Didn't happen not with him or anyone I dated for the next year. I wouldn't alow myslef to get over him. I always called him and went to see him and that doesn't work when you are trying to get over someone. How old are you...If you don't mind me asking??? I really don't think that you can love soemone when your heart belongs to someone else....So my question to you is do you really love your new guy?? Or, are you just trying to convince yourself that you do??? Look, i'll be honest with you...You have a long road ahead of you if you want to get over this guy becasue he was your first love and the first guy you had sex with. First thing you gotta do is .S.T.O.P talking to him everyday and you really really really gotta stop telling him you love him (even though you do)!!! Don't depend on other guys to get you over him, because that wont work and don't start sleeping with other guys cause that wont work either. Lean on your girl friends and stay busy...Don't sit around at home thinking of him. You'll be fine after a little while, I was. Two years after my ex and I broke up, I met and feel in love with the man who is now my husband. As soon as you met the guy you're going to marry, you'll realize that the feeling you had for your ex was nothing. You will get trough this...I promise...Just give youself the chance!!! Good luck...And i'm here if you need to talk!!


Teresa

Thanks for the advice teresa! I'm 16 years old..Just so you know :) my ex isn't dating anyone cause he says i'm the only one for him which I understand him saying that, we've only been broken up for 3 weeks. I do really care about my new bf a lot, he is a great guy, but yeah to be honest I think I am trying to convince myself that I love him..Maybe I do love him but it's not the type of love where I would spend the rest of my life with him. He's wanting to take things wayy to fast, he's talked about engagement & I was like woahh we haven't even been together for a month. My ex & I had just started talking about that & we were together for 8 months. I've been thinking about this & there is no way I could stop talking to my ex or push him out of my life, no way..I've been talkin to my best friend about it 2 & she really loved my ex *as a brother/sister love* & that means a lot to me that they get along great, and my new bf she used to get along with until she annoyed him to much & he told her to stop talking to her..You have to be able to get along with my best friend to be with me, you know? I really do think i'm supposed to be with my ex, he cries to me all the time about wanting to be with me, and how there is no other girl in this world like me. I know he means it cause if he didn't he wouldn't be sticking around this long trying to be with me. I love him. As for my bf now, he's always questioning me about my feelings, that gets to me after awhile. He says he isn't mad or anything that I talk to my ex but he's always asking me if I love my ex more then him, or if I care about my ex more then him. I can't do that cause I do love my ex more then him, he's been in my life for over 2 years now. I look around everywhere & all's I see is my ex..Memories, pictures, gifts..I haven't even told my family about us breaking up cause they love him sooo much, and his family loves me...We all get along great. I can't live without him..He is the one, I can feel it. Even though I am only 16..


What do you think??

I think that you are head over heels in love (and it doesn't matter if you are ony 16)!!! I also thik that you guys can work past your diffrences and be together!!! It sounds to me like you are both love sick. Stop suffering and stop making him suffer...You two belong together. I had no idea that you cared this deeply for him or I would have made my post a little diffrent!!! Lol!!! Good luck girl!!! Follow your heart above all else.

Teresa
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get back to me soon and let me know what happens!!!
Please take him back soon, because if you don't...You could lose him forever.

Hey girlie! I did talk to my ex last night about 'us' & he really has been trying to change for me. All the feelings I had when we first got together are smacking me in the face, it feels like i'm falling in love with him all over again, it's awesome! I member on my b-day last month I walked up to him & he just put his arms around me & I asked him what he would say if I asked him back out, and he started crying..That answered my question. I could tell he was cryin inside all day that day, once a few tears fell dow his cheek..That was the first time we saw each other since we broke up. I tell ya it killed me inside, wow..Then that night we, you know did it haha, and it made it worse but yeah there's somethin bout this guy I can't resist..We're so much alike, wow! We know every little thing about each other & he said he has a special gift for me & I know it's a engagement ring & he's plannin on proposing in front of all our family..I'll bawl like a baby, seriously I can't wait till the day though when that happens. Thanks for all the advice!! I feel so much happier now we're back together..He's my everything!!

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