pixma
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2005
Posts: 1019
Location: NSW Australia
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Paranoid?? Please Respond to My Post!!
Posted: 09-26-05 09:24am
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I'm having an issue that I need some
advice with!!
You see about a week and a half ago I had
brown mucus come out of me when I wiped
and went to the toilet (a couple of days
after unprotected sex) but it only went
for a day and a half. I'm not getting any
of the normal signs that my period is
coming (normally start spotting by now).
My issue is that i'm a tad nervous that
its going to be late and my partner and I
had an arguement bout 6 months back
because he thought I was tricking him into
getting pregnant because I was writing
down when I was getting my period ( that
wasn't my intention). I have since then
stopped doing that to make him feel more
at ease I just try and remember the dates
of when its due.
Do you think i'm just being paranoid??
When should I consider buying a pregnancy
test if it is late??
Its probably nothing and i'll most likely
get it in the morning but for future
reference please respond to my post!!
Thanks
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BrianBaby
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2005
Posts: 1383
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Posted: 09-26-05 09:46am
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You can test as soon as you miss your
period. Actually you can test up to 4
days before your period is even due, but
sometimes the results aren't as
accurate....
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angel6932
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Aug 2005
Posts: 788
Location: US
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pixma
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2005
Posts: 1019
Location: NSW Australia
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Posted: 09-26-05 10:11am
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How would you ladies handle being in the
situation that I have found myself in??
(in first post)
i think that is what is eating away at me
the most!! Because it was never my
intension.
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BrianBaby
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Joined: 19 Jan 2005
Posts: 1383
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Posted: 09-26-05 10:41am
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If he dosn't beleive you than that's his
fault. Did'nt you say you stopped
keeping track of it??
Don't let him blame it on you if your
pregnant....It's just as much as his
responiblity as it is yours
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angel6932
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Aug 2005
Posts: 788
Location: US
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Thank You
Posted: 09-26-05 10:53am
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Thank you I wanted to say something but I
didnt. Yeah it goes both ways. Not only
one to get pregnant two. But dont worry
swetty were all here for you...
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Assena
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004
Posts: 328
Location: Georgia
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Posted: 09-26-05 11:48am
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As far as your signifigant other is
concerned he just does not understand. I
was told by my gyn to keep track of my
cycles. It is the best way to tell when
is something is wrong with you... Even
other than pregnancy. Did you try to
explain that to him and that when we women
go to the dr's even for a cold that they
always ask us the date of our last
menstrual cycle.
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GinACod
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Sep 2005
Posts: 262
Location: Ohio
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Posted: 09-26-05 13:56pm
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Aye he should know that you are suppost to
keep track of your period just so you know
if there is any problems. If you are pg
its just as much his fault as yours (
sorry to sound like that) but anyway, as
for the matter at hand. Say well you
wanted me to stop tracking my period so I
did. I didn't trap you or anything if I
am pg. I tried to keep track of it so I
knew what my period was like and so if it
stoped I could see what was going on.
Wether you believe me or not is your
choice as for me going on with this pg
.... Thats my choice but I really want
you to understand I was tracking so I knew
and so I could plan accordingly so this
would be less likely to happen. Cause
keeping track of my period is also a way
to find out when I ovulate and what not.
And go with that. He might hate you but
he should get over himself maybe he might
want this maybe not but either way if you
are then its happening. If he doesn't
want you or anything to do with it at that
point. Then thats his choice. You
can't make guys grow up and take
resopnisbility. Its something that
happens over a long period of time. And
some guys its hard to explain but I know
obgyns do tell you to keep track of them
so you know if somethings wrong with you
or your body. Whether its stress, pg, or
cancer.
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pixma
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2005
Posts: 1019
Location: NSW Australia
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Wow Thank You
Posted: 09-27-05 00:02am
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Wow thank you soo much for your feed
back!!
Its the next day and still no sign!!
Trying not to think about it to much.
I know he will adjust if I am!! But hes
not ready just yet!! Hes 26. I just hope
he will understand and not think i've
tricked him!!!
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mrsfroggee
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Sep 2005
Posts: 1
Location: Louisiana
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Brownish Discharge
Posted: 09-27-05 00:30am
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I am 18 weeks pregnant and happily
married. However, my husband and I had
sex and a day later I had a brown
discharge, I freaked and called my obgyn,
they told me that it was just from having
intercourse and that the discharge was
from that and could be present for up to
48hours. So don't panic, it could be
just that....
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pixma
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2005
Posts: 1019
Location: NSW Australia
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Thanks Again Ladies! Much Appreciated!
Posted: 09-28-05 00:17am
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Well for now lets hope thats all it is!!
Still no period but the last 24 hrs I have
felt like I have pee'd myself. I keep on
thinking its my period but obviously
isn't!!
It tends to happen in mid cycle but never
when i'm due for my period.
Thanks again ladies
much appreciated!
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