Joined: 26 Sep 2005 Posts: 4 Location: Brisbane, Australia
Life Partner Or Not Posted: 09-26-05 06:31am
I have been with my buyfriend for 3 years
now. For the past year we have been
having more and more arguments, among
other things that have made our
ralationship hard to bare. In the past
week we have been discussing breaking up
I know he doesnt want to but I am only 21
and have alot of life to live. I feel
really tied down. I fel like everything
is my fault and that he is slowly starting
to control me. I live with him and have
just stated a new job near there.
I love him soo much but the stress of
living with him is becomming hard to
handle. I get bad chest pains, anxiety
attacks (i sufer from panic attacks and
anxiety), I cannot contentrate on my work
for college and am worried that it will
impact my behaivour and loose the job I
just gained.
I fall asleep feeling a mess of feelings
and wake just the same.
I do not know what to believe any more.
Friends tell me to stick it out untill the
end of the eyar but I do not know if I
will last that long.
What do you think??
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annaf2001
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Oct 2005 Posts: 41 Location: Oklahoma
Posted: 10-03-05 15:52pm
I am almost 23 myself and I got married
about 2 1/2 years ago. Well I thought
that I would be with him for the rest of
my life. He all of a sudden decided that
he wanted to be single and wanted to
separate for a while. Then about 1 month
later he calls me over to his apt. To
give me the divorce papers. What the
hell! Which to me seems immature, and a
irrational desion. He loved me and then
one day just changes his mind.
Well we didn't live together first and now
I wish we would have maybe then none of
this would have happened. If you have
second doubts about being with him, just
take some time apart to find yourself, so
that you can stop wasting yours and his
time. If you love each other it will all
work out in the end. I have now came to
the realization that this happened for a
reason and there is a better guy out there
for me.
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sweet74
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Dec 2005 Posts: 2 Location: missouri
Re: Life Partner Or Not Posted: 12-31-05 14:45pm
Hi my name is crystal I met my husband
when I was 18. We fought off and on
constantly for 13 years. Life is too
short, if you are not happy and you feel
it in your gut.....Listen! Listen to your
body, I had to. I started having serious
anxiety attacks where I would end up in
the emergency room where I work. How
embarassing!! You know in your heart if
you are meant to stay where you are. God
bless and good luck crystal
