Joined: 26 Sep 2005 Posts: 10 Location: Warrensburg, MO
Vaginal/clitoral Orgasms Posted: 09-26-05 01:01am
Me and my guy both love to have sex and we
do it very often...At least ever other
day. It's been over a year and still
it's hot and steamy. I am always very
comfortable during and so is he but I have
never had a vaginal orgasm, ever...With
anyone. And he can go sometimes for
quite a long time but it won't matter.
We have done probably every position
imaginable. The only way I can climax
is through a lot of clitoral stimulation
and the orgasm lasts for just 5 or 6
seconds. Is it possible to only have "
orgasm wiring" hooked up to the clitoris
and not vaginally? :(
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rani1964
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Sep 2005 Posts: 2 Location: tennessee
Vaginal Orgasm Posted: 09-26-05 22:30pm
Take a little time and explain this to
your boyfriend. Set some time just to
explore. During mutual masturbation ask
your boyfriend to insert two fingers into
your vagina and push up towards your tummy
and rub and different intensities and
different speeds while sucking on your
nipples. It took a long time before I
discovered my g-spot. Once you locate
where yours is, you can find different
positions and different ways to have a
vaginal orgasm. To me the vaginal orgasm
is more powerful than the clitoral. Good
luck!
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c_o
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Sep 2005 Posts: 10 Location: Warrensburg, MO
Re: Vaginal Orgasm Posted: 09-26-05 23:00pm
We have actually tried the whole finger
thing. That is what he does just about
everytime as a part of foreplay. I can
get to a state where it's just like blood
rushing feet numing yatta yatta but it
will just like dye out. I have watched so
many tv shows and stuff that is like on
hbo late at night and they basically say
the problem could be I am not
concentrating, I am not comfortable, or I
am thinking about it too much. But it's
none of those things. ;( any other
advice???
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user1024
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2005 Posts: 4
Posted: 09-27-05 18:53pm
He may not be doing it quite right even
though he does it a lot. Here's a few
tips to help him get you over the edge
clit-free:
- get you turned on and ready before
getting anywhere near your vagina. Kiss
alot, have him tease you, suck your
nipples, brush against your vagina with
your panties on, erotic massage, whatever
gets you so hot you can't stand it.
- have him start with one finger and put
it inside. The best way to guide him is
to tell him to use his finger to touch
'the back of your clit'. The g-spot is
somewhere near the underside of your clit,
have him gently feel around until you feel
a different sensation from normal
intercourse. Sometimes this can take
significant pressure before you feel it.
- once he's found it, have him make short,
quick strokes over the g-spot (which
should feel raised up to him). He should
straighten his finger, then apply pressure
and curl it, pressing his fingertip across
your g-spot as he pulls the tip towards
him.
- have him increase speed and pressure,
sometimes alternating between doing the
g-spot move and running little circles
around your cervix (feels like a little
tongue or finger off the back wall of your
vagina).
- if you need even more intensity during
the g-spot motion to get you over the top,
have him press on your lower abdomen,
right above the pubic bone gently. He
should feel the abdomen pressing hand push
down with the fingers inside. By doing
this, he's creating pressure against the
g-spot and not allowing your body to
stretch.
- if that still doesn't do it, have him
kiss your clit, suck your nipples, or
insert a finger into your anus (whatever
works best for you) to add to the
intensity. He may have to be patient...
But it'll be worth the wait for you
both.
- one side note, if you begin getting the
feeling that you have to urinate, don't
worry about it, that could be a sign that
you're getting close to your vaginal
orgasm and female ejaculation. Just
relax, get lost in the sensations, and
enjoy the best feeling of your life.
