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Q: Gurls Pleasee Help...
asked by: loneytearz on September 24th, 2005
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~*~well hey guys...Im wasnt to sure where to post this...But here it goes...Im gonna be 32weeks on tuesday the 27...N as alot of u ladies know my sons father left us when I was about 3 months prego...But lately ive been talken to my ex(not my sons father) me and my ex have allways been really close but the whole thing is when I met him I never thought id allways like him...(love him)...So I kinda did a stupid thing n lied about my age...He now belives im 19 when im 17...But the whole thing is tryn to tell him in 17 im so scared he wants to by my sons father...N he wants to be in the room when I deliver...But im worried there going to ask or say my age n hes gonna have a break down....Hes 27...Im 17...But he belive im 19...N I want to be with him belive me I want to be with him...He is the worlds best guy...Hes allways been there for me threw anythingggg.....N now I love for him to be my sons father...But I dont no how to tell him of my age...Can anyyyyy of u kind sweet hearted ladies help me out... Pleaseee...Im hurten deep down n id like some advice on this please n I thank u all who answer sooo much...Thank u....
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angel6932
replied on September 24th, 2005
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Hi I am not a teen but I still thought I would try to help you. I am 20yrs old. Trust me sweetie you don’t need the guy that left. If he can’t see what a miracle you are carrying then he isn't worth your time.
Ok now to the 27 yr old guy. Ok I don’t really know what to tell you but that you need to tell him how old you are. It isn't fare to him or you. I don’t personally care about your alls age. But I think that he should know the truth. I can say from experience that it isn’t easy to tell the man you love you are not the age he thinks you are. The only thing different was I never told him how old I was cause I thought he knew cause our boss got us hooked up and come to find out my boss lied about my age. So one night after weeks of dating I ask him to go to prom with me and he was like what in the hell are you talking about. I thought that you were in college. Well that was true I was a senior in high school but taking college classes to. I was 18 and he was 22. Anyway after that night I didn’t expect him to stay with me well anyway he did. And now we are married and expecting our first child in a couple of weeks.
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loneytearz
replied on September 24th, 2005
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Thank u hunnie...U helped me somewhat...I just dont no how to open up n tell him...I mean im kinda hopen it wont matta n hell be like well w/e but on the other hand I dont think he will...Im so so scared to tell him...But thank u soo much ya reply helped me...=-)thank u
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angel6932
replied on September 24th, 2005
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Sweet heart you need to tell him. If he is what I am thinking from what you say then he will understand.
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Happiness03
replied on September 25th, 2005
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Yes, you definitely need to tell him. You need to just start the conversation and say something like, "i made the mistake of lying to you about my age...". Just let him know you are scared to lose a love like him because you want more than anything for him to be a part of you and your baby's life.

Just be prepared, he is going to be upset at first. A lie is a lie, and you will just have to be honest with yourself and let him know that, because really, who likes to be lied to? Just reverse the situation to where you are in his place, and that will help you to empathise with his feelings. Good luck to you!
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