Your story sounds alot like mine . Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2yrs and ever since I got pregnant he started changing with me long story short now im 34 weeks and we are no longer together he says he wants to wait until I give birth my due date is on nov 2 and we would have made a year in oct if he didn't feel like this but he does .I know he still loves me but he completely changed now he is mean rude and disrespectful he was never like this with me until now even though we remain friends I really am not sure if our relationship could be repaired .I don't know that when I give birth im going to want to be with him even though I still love him I don't know if I could forgive him for not being with me through this and I also think he is cheating on me he says he isn't but I don't believe him anyways good luck hopefully we can both repair our relationships

Your story sounds alot like mine . Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2yrs and ever since I got pregnant he started changing with me long story short now im 34 weeks and we are no longer together he says he wants to wait until I give birth my due date is on nov 2 and we would have made a year in oct if he didn't feel like this but he does .I know he still loves me but he completely changed now he is mean rude and disrespectful he was never like this with me until now even though we remain friends I really am not sure if our relationship could be repaired .I don't know that when I give birth im going to want to be with him even though I still love him I don't know if I could forgive him for not being with me through this and I also think he is cheating on me he says he isn't but I don't believe him anyways good luck hopefully we can both repair our relationships

Really sorry to hear that. We are like on the same page exactly. Oh well, we just have to hope for the best and above all, put tour children first. By the way im due november 10th so our babies are close too!!!
Hehhehe. Well best wishes, thanks for listening, and take care.. :)

Your story is so identical to mine. I had not been dating my bf for long. But in the beginning he was attentive, basically told me that he wanted me to get pregnant. Was romantic and the perfect man. Infact he was the one to insist I take a pg test. Well after the test he was excited for a day or two. Told everyone about the baby. Then started neglecting me, never wants to spennd time with me. Basically has started treating me like shi_. I was 4 weeks when he started that now I am 10 weeks. I was very depressed at first and cried alot. Now im stronger and I know that I do not want this type of man in my life or my childs. I will let him be a father but I will remember that when the going get tough his as_ will leave. I blame myself because he is much younger than me. But I have always wanted a baby (3 miscarrages) maybe his purpose in my life was to be a sperm donor :lol: and nothing else.

I cant wait till I feel my baby move. I have bonded with this little one these past 4 weeks. I ve shed tears, question god why, and almost thought about doing the unthinkable :cry: . But now I see that the baby and me will be ok. My family an d friends are so excited now its about time for me to be.

Baby you are not alone and I will keep you in my prayers. Focus on that little one in that tummy and no one else.....

you stay strong! He needs to realize that it's not about you and him anymore...It's all about the new life that you are preparing to deliver. I know many ppl who had children at this age and younger. I won't lie and say it's easy being a single mom, because i'm sure that it's not! But make sure you get your head clear...Focus on your child, not him. He'll come around and end up feeling stupid once he finally hold his child. Congrats, oh and if he still isn't acting right...Tax his ass! Get that child support mama!

Well,sounds like we're all in similar boats. I started dating my child's father a year ago this month. We broke up at the end of febuary/beginning of march b/c we never got to see each other. He's a manager at a car dealership, and I work full time, go to school full time and am in the national guard. I found out I was pregnant the end of april (i was already 12 weeks and didn't even know it cause the tests kept readin negative). When I let him know I was prego, he asked me to have an abortion, but I refused. We have been trying to work things out, but I feel like the only reason why is b/c i'm pregnant. He is 33 years old, i'm 22...He is more worried about what his parents think and how we weren't married and how he is going to hell for being in the wrong relationship. He doesn't support me emotionally at all through this pregnancy and it feels like he is around just enough to act like he is. He told me this weekend he felt as though it were a chore to see me and he didn't know if he could be with me. I am very termpramental around him lately, and it just seems to get worse. I am not sure if it is the hormones or if I just really don't like him! I am due on the 27th of november, and I hope I can learn to tolerate him a little more once our son is here....Or should I just leave him be and just let him be a father to his son...I have no clue what to do!!! Good luck to you ladies with your relationships, I hope everything works out for you and I wish safe and healthy deliveries and babies for you!!!