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Q: Help Me Please...
asked by: cherokee17 on September 23rd, 2005
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I need help. I've been with my fiance' for almost 2 years. From the beginning I prayed to see if he was the one for me. And I always had that peace. He's the greatest guy in the world. Then one day back in july, I all of a sudden thought, "do I need to really be with him?" I don't understand it. We always had a pretty good relationship. And I always knew that he was the one for me. I was happy, but i'm not anymore. I've just been diagnosed with depression/anxiety last week and i'm on medication for it. My Dr. Believes that my doubts are from the depression/anxiety. He said it can get you wondering about things you never thought you would. But I find myself wondering if I even want to be with him, or what it would be like to be with other guys and I don't want to feel this way. My fiance's great! And he says he knows that we're gonna stay together, even when I told him I don't know if I want to be with him and that I wonder about other guys, he still knows it'll work out. But even though i'm confused, I still call him all the time and I can't break up with him. Its like something is stopping me from ending it. So whats the deal? Is it the depression/anxiety? Somebody please help me save my relationship!!!
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angel6932
replied on October 9th, 2005
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I totally understand how you feel I have the same thing well I am bypolar and because of this I think about things that normally I wouldnt. I dont understand either. I am fixing to have a baby and that makes me really worried cause I am like what if I get mad at her daddy for no reason and just leave how far is that to her? I dont know what to tell you but that we are in a terriable bind being this way. Its not easy on them either you know.

All I can say is I will pray for you.
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Lilypad
replied on October 14th, 2005
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Although your doctor may be right about your anxiety, I feel you should put off the actual wedding until you are 100% sure. I personally analyze every situation in my life to death but for me, wanting to marry chris was the easiest decision of my life.(and the best) trust your instincts, they are there to guide you.
Good luck
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