I am a 21 year old single mom of a 3 year
old boy.His dad got involved in drugs
while I was pregnant and I broke up with
him, long story short, the last time my
son saw his dad was when he was three
months old and his dad had him laying on
the floor on a blanket while he was on the
couch smoking crack with his son. When I
found out, I took my son away from his dad
til he could get clean. Three years
later, we are still waiting. Now he is
saying he wants to get visitation! He has
never paid a dime for child support,
doesnt even know what my son looks like,
cant remember his birthday and half the
time cant remember his name. He couldnt
even stop partying to come sign his name
on the birth certificate. How do I keep
him from getting visitation with my son?
I know that he is not clean now and he has
also threatened that he will take my son
and I will never see him again. Except
for running and never letting him find
me...What can I do. Some one please help.
What do I tell my kid? He is starting
to ask about where "his daddy" is when
other kids' daddies are around. Someone
please help if you can.
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naziah0514
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Sep 2005 Posts: 1
Sorry For Your Situation Posted: 09-30-05 13:22pm
Well, that is really screwed up that you
had to go through that. I think that if
he's talking about getting visitation
rights you go right ahead and let him try
and bring out everything in court. He
doesn't deserve to see your child and I
know how you feel about trying to keep him
away. My baby's father is in prison for
sexually molesting his little brother and
he wants to be with me and have a family
and I just wont let it happen. If it
takes you having to run, do whats best for
your son.
