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young_mom
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Does This Make Me a Bad Person?
Posted: 09-21-05 16:26pm
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Well i'm 16 and 6weeks and 9days pregnant.
And I have yet ot tell my grandma who I
live with. But i'm going to the doctors
next week because my doctor is going to
help me tell her. But the problem is, is
when she finds out she is going to want me
to tell my mom and her family, and I dont
want them to know and I don't want to tell
them. From the time my mom had me her and
her family never wanted anything to do
with me. When I was 7 my moms mom told me
that my mom should have got rid of me.
And to my mom is was all about the money
and that was it. To this day my mom still
hates kids and she is 34 years old. And
yet I love kids more then anything. But
at 13 my mom kicked me out becasue I
didn't like her boyfriend who has 2 kids
of his own, but she wants him to send them
to there mom. Thats why I live with my
dads parents who have always loved me.
And I have always been my grandpas baby
and I know that when he finds out that i'm
pregnant it is going to kill him inside
because my mom and dad had me at 17. My
dad has always wanted me I was always my
daddys little girl. But I wont live with
him because of his wife and he drinks to
much. So I know I am better off here.
But anywayz thats why I don't want to
tell my mom. Do you think it makes me a
bad person because I don't want to. Thanx
for reading and taking the time to write
back.
I know long but I didn't want to leave
anything out on what my point is for not
wanting to tell them or have them around
my baby.
~ashley~
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DaliciaLynn
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Posted: 09-21-05 19:39pm
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I don't think it makes you a bad person at
all.
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Happiness03
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Posted: 09-21-05 20:07pm
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No, it doesn't make you a bad person,
however, you need to face the music! You
had sex, you got pregnant, everyone is
going to know sooner or later, it would be
best to go ahead and tell them now. Give
them to time to hopefully accept the fact
that you are going to be adding a "new"
addition to the family. You need to
accept what has happened by telling your
family. Good luck.
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Kourtney08
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Posted: 09-21-05 20:15pm
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6 weeks and 9 days pregnant?
Wouldn't that be 7 weeks and 2 days?
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seksiHily
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Posted: 09-21-05 20:40pm
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The worst part is her "doctor" told her
this
and its no mistake she's said it twice
http://ehealthfor
um.Com/health/topic42271.Html
ashley please get ur story straight
Last edited by seksiHily on 09-21-05 21:04pm; edited 1 time in total
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Happiness03
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Posted: 09-21-05 21:02pm
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ha! Lol! That is too funny! I didn't
catch it the first time!! Think she may
want to get her "story" straight! How
funny! :)
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jaydynsmomi
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jaydynsmomi
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jaydynsmomi
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Posted: 09-22-05 08:42am
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Nope, three times!
| young_mom
wrote: | when you are pregnant is it
ok to get pericings... I'm only 6weeks
and 9days and some people said thats fine
to get them and others have said no I
wanted to get a cupple percings but I
don't know...So really I have no idea...
I know I probley sound stupid for asking
but i'm really not sure.. If anyone can
anwser that would be great...
Thanx
~ashley~ |
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young_mom
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Posted: 09-22-05 08:47am
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Well sorry but thats what my doctor told
me. Like holy I can't help what my
doctor tells me. But thanx. Like this
is going to be one of them things because
my doctor tells me so I say what i'm told
and I look like the bad one.
~ashley~
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 09-22-05 12:11pm
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| kourtney08
wrote: | 6 weeks and 9 days pregnant?
Wouldn't that be 7 weeks and 2
days? |
kourt! You stole my post! Lol.
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Kourtney08
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Posted: 09-22-05 14:07pm
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| lil_blaze2004
wrote: | | kourtney08
wrote: | 6 weeks and 9 days pregnant?
Wouldn't that be 7 weeks and 2
days? |
kourt! You stole my post!
Lol. |
what can I say, smart people think alike
:)
to the op - if your doctor is telling you
that you're 6 weeks and 9 days pregnant,
then perhaps you should search for a new
doctor, that knows what he/she is talking
about. :)
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seksiHily
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Posted: 09-22-05 15:37pm
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Too funny my grandpa was doing doctor
paperwork only I think in his early 80s
and he never wrote or told anyone 6 weeks
9 days even... For goodness sakes. That
doctors license needs to be revoked.
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 09-22-05 16:07pm
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Being moms we need 9 day weeks to get
everything done. Lol
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LiteSkinShortE
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Posted: 09-22-05 16:49pm
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Aaww well don't laugh at her ladies u knew
what she meant!
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 09-22-05 19:20pm
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| liteskinshorte
wrote: | | aaww well don't laugh at her
ladies u knew what she
meant! |
no not really, cause she posted it in
another topic as well. It's like saying
"i am 25 and 380 days" since I just
turned 26. Lol
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Kourtney08
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Posted: 09-23-05 03:52am
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| liteskinshorte
wrote: | | aaww well don't laugh at her
ladies u knew what she
meant! |
i don't even think she knew what she
meant.
She said it 3 times, come on. I'm going
to laugh, then i'm going to tell her to
get a new doctor if he's telling her she's
6 weeks and nine flipping days pregnant.
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young_mom
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Posted: 09-25-05 14:49pm
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Lil_blaze2004
I don't think I ever said that. But
thanx.
And yeah I have been looking for a
different doctor, i'm waiting for another
one but the waiting list is so long so I
have to take what I get. But thanx
anyway.
~ashley~
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seksiHily
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Posted: 09-25-05 14:57pm
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Waiting list?
You call your insurance company and ask
for a list of ob's in your area they
cover. There all that booked?
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 09-26-05 05:39am
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| young_mom
wrote: | lil_blaze2004
I don't think I ever said that. But
thanx.
And yeah I have been looking for a
different doctor, i'm waiting for another
one but the waiting list is so long so I
have to take what I get. But thanx
anyway.
~ashley~ |
you never said what???
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