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Q: My Boyfriend Doesn't Want Sex As Much As I Do
asked by: Confused6069 on September 21st, 2005
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My boyfriend and I just got into this relationship and I want to have sex with him all the time. Yea so i'm a little sexual.. Whatever it's not a bad thing but I didn't think that I wanted it more than a guy. I know it's not me because if I go for it I can get it but I want him to want me spur of the moment sometimes. I dont feel i'm desired. He doesnt masturbate either... Its really confusing and I don't get it. We talked and we think it's psychological. His past girl wouldn't give it up but every so often and he got used to that, so much to the point he didnt care whether he had sex or not. Blocked it out of his mind. But why is he like this with me? I'm not her and that was a long time ago. Help!!!
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Justin_Toronto
replied on September 22nd, 2005
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Psychological, physical, perhaps a lowered sex drive. Could be medications he is on, other stresses in his life, or perhaps he is not attracted to you in that way, so much, just yet. (which is fine, it comes in time.)

in either case, take it easy on him for a while and be express everything openly as to your needs and desires.

Be safe,
justin
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Confused6069
replied on September 26th, 2005
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Finally...
Well I hate to sound cocky but I know for a fact that its not that he's not attracted to me. I did talk to him and things are getting better. Apparently he thought he would be disrespecting me if he was touching me all the time and so on. I explained that he's in that place to do that and its not disrespect unless I already said I didnt like something and he kept doing it. Things are lookin' better
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