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shanti1

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Joined: 20 Dec 2004
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My Ex Boyfriend, Called Again, Emailed Me Again I Am Scared!
Posted: 09-20-05 18:43pm

Ugh, :x :cry:
i broke up with my bipolar boyfriend months ago, I told him I wished him well and good thoughts.

I have not contacted him, and I thought I blocked his email address.

Well, out of the blue, of many many days and weeks,
he writes me, I just deleted the emails
and he left countless phone msges. Ugh

he said he wanted something he gave me back, he said something attatched to it was his.
I gave it to someone else to give back, as I did not want to see him

i personally think, in my heart of hearts, this item was just an excuse to reconnect with me.
This guy is mr. Jekel and mr. Hyde and he is great and he is mean and abusive, and unless I have a lot of money for plastic surgery, laser
i will always have a scar
so he is done, and I see he wrote me again, but did not want to open the mail up to see if he has a different email address or

i will just have to get a new email address, ugh!

I did not deserve this, do deserve this
why can't he leave me alone forever?

This has been a nightmare, life sucks

bless you all for reading this, responding, it means a lot to me,
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SkyWriter

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Joined: 21 Sep 2005
Posts: 6

Posted: 09-21-05 13:58pm

Hi shanti, your story made me join the board asap instead of when I was looking for information for myself. 25 years ago I was the bipolar2 ex-boy friend. I was never physically abusive, or even hung around. But I did send a few nasty 'poetries'. Now I am positive it was infatuation. Anyway. 23 years later we meet through classmates.Com and email for a few year, and lunch both have our own families and it's all ok.

Problem is, I didn't get diagnosed bipolar2 until a year ago, I told her about it before. And it was og. But lately meds have been failing me. I tell her, don't email me, I won't email her, maybe 1 maybe 2, 5, 10 years later it'll be ok. Friends can wait.

You have to understand if he's a friend, and if he is; he needs to wait.

Ok, I gave this out sounding like advice. It's not. It's just my opinion; and we're all pretty sure how far you can trust that given my admission.

Good luck shanti
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BPjoe23

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Joined: 11 Oct 2005
Posts: 111
Location: dfw tx

Posted: 10-11-05 18:29pm

Just block him then, i'm bipolar have never hurt any of my lady friends.
Maybe you did the right thing living him, or maybe he is still hurt about the heart break and wants to talk to you about it.
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