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Q: Me And My Girlfriend Help (read)

asked by: Jadc on September 20th, 2005

New User

Hello

im new to the forum and I wasnt sure were I would put this.... So correct me please.

Well im 16 years of age and male... And my girlfriend is 17

this is about sex by the way..

Well me and my girlfriend have sex nearly everytime we c each other... Thats every weekend because we live apart (1hour train ride) and during sex im worried... Because when im inside her going at it... For like 5 mins im close to cumming.. But we try changin persisions to stop myself and it sometimes works... But I jus want to know how to stop my self.. Because basically... I think my girlfriend is worried to shes gets fed up that she cant get an orgasm as quick n all... So I was wondering on tips for me and her...

Thnx alot for replyin if do

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Replies(13)

angel6932

replied on September 20th, 2005

Active User, very eHealthy

Vibrator Or Fingering

Ok sorry it was just I thought this would get you more replys. So anyway. You really should problly try a vibrator on her. See that is what happened to me and my hubby he would always go before me. So one day I got on here and someone said well he needs to try fingering you and if that dosnt work then a vibrator. So try either one of these or both. Trust me it works and she will go allot faster. Try having her sit on you and touch her with either the vibrator or you and see if that dosnt work and when she starts then that is when you finish her off.

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Jadc

replied on September 21st, 2005

New User

Thanks alot I will try that :p

but do you think im (cum) quicker because of my age?

And is it natural for a guy of my age....

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angel6932

replied on September 21st, 2005

Active User, very eHealthy

Hope I Have Helped

Its completly natural sweety. Ya most men are like that. They have to just learn to hold off a bit. Which I dont know anything about that. I will ask my hubby.

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cd998776

replied on September 21st, 2005

Active User, very eHealthy

Masturbating prior to sex can often help you last atleast a little longer. Guys who really know what they are doing often use kegels to strengthen their pc muscle. Once their pc muscle gets strong enough, many are able to orgasm, without ejaculating, also making the recoup time shorter; but that would take you a while. You might also a desensitizing lube; I don't know if they work, but I have heard that they can make you last a long time if you get the right kind. If your goal is simply to last longer without much money, time, or effort, your best bet is just masturbating prior to sex.

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Sam-J-J

replied on September 21st, 2005

New User

Thats the best tip i've been given before. Just masterbate a few hours before you intend to have sex. "never go into battle with a loaded gun" lol.

Also, just try and think of non-sexual thoughts whilst you're doing it. Obviously, not thinking of them too hard or you'll lose your erection. One of my friends said he likes to do his 8 times table in his head whilst doing it to take his mind off a little lol.

But I think he was jokin! :)

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Jadc

replied on September 21st, 2005

New User

Lol what did take my mind of cumming was talkin dirty to each other while on the job :p and it helped but my girlfriend is to shy to talk dirty.

But I will take all advice but mainly angels because.. I like playing with her... We take turns lol :)...

I heard something before that a mans penis can be very sensitive around the bell end area... I was wondering if I had that if it exsists ... Dont laugh at me its a genuine question hehe :p

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angel6932

replied on September 21st, 2005

Active User, very eHealthy

jadc wrote:

lol what did take my mind of cumming was talkin dirty to each other while on the job :p and it helped but my girlfriend is to shy to talk dirty.

But I will take all advice but mainly angels because.. I like playing with her... We take turns lol :)...

I heard something before that a mans penis can be very sensitive around the bell end area... I was wondering if I had that if it exsists ... Dont laugh at me its a genuine question hehe :p

thank you but now I dont understand what you are asking. Yes guys are sensitive is that what you are asking?

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Jadc

replied on September 21st, 2005

New User

Well a mans penis is sensitive near the head of area of the penis... But can it be over sensitive?

:p

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angel6932

replied on September 21st, 2005

Active User, very eHealthy

I Guess So.

Im not sure about that, but I know that my husband is very sensitave. So I guess you can be.

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Jadc

replied on September 21st, 2005

New User

Oh thanks for your advice people... I will try to get around the forum and post to others but thnx again :) but still reply for more idea's for me thank you

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Chemical_Romance

replied on September 22nd, 2005

New User

Hey i'm jadc's girlfriend. Just wondering are there any other things we could try other than a vibrator cuz I have 1 but I dont get much from it. Maybe I need a better one I dont know...

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cd998776

replied on September 23rd, 2005

Active User, very eHealthy

jadc wrote:

well a mans penis is sensitive near the head of area of the penis... But can it be over sensitive?

:p

yes. It can also be less sensitive (meaning he will probably have a hard time getting off).

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Jadc

replied on September 23rd, 2005

New User

Oh k thnx for that.... Thank god I dont have a less sensitive penis lol :p

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