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Q: Problems In Bed
asked by: RoseAxel on September 18th, 2005
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I lost my virginity to my now ex--we did 'it' twice, and both times I orgasmed and I guess I came. He was also able to get me to nearly orgasm when fingering me. A few months later i'm having intercourse with my now bf, but he's barely able to get me off, let alone get me to orgasm and come. I don't know what to do, or what to have him do. I feel like i've always had sexual problems--i never got anywhere masturbating. I get really wet during the sex and it feels good, but not anywhere near the orgasms I had with the previous bf. Does anyone have any suggestions?? I feel like i'm disappointing/letting down my bf, and i'd really like the pleasure myself.
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habichuelo
replied on March 3rd, 2007
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Try This Urgent!
Try This Urgent!
Posted: 03-03-07 5:14pm

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Try this urgent!
Posted: 03-03-07 4:58pm

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nobody has told you the real way to get an extreme delicious orgasm to the woman,,,just try this,,,follow this instructions,,...
1)the woman have to laid on one side and lift one leg wide and high,,exposing her vaginal area and her anal area.
2)the man have to hold her lifted leg on one of his shoulder,,and...
3) with his fingertips he will caress and tickle her anal hole and vaginal center area with a lubricant.
4)do that for a while until the woman is very wet and very desperate for intercourse
5)now the man can start penetrating the woman in her vagina slowly,,
but only penetrate the penis head in the vagina several times until she get wildly desperate to be penetrated with his full lenght penis "" do it!!!."
6)this is the most important step,,,,,ok,,,,now while penetrating her vagina,,,the man will tickle and caress her anal hole,,,,also the man can penetrate only one fingertip into her anal hole and unplugin it quickly.
7)by doing this the orgasm on her will be extremely delicious and unforgotable,,,,,she will be extremely hook on this way of having sex,,,that she will be wanting it everyday more and more.
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*Vanessa*
replied on April 23rd, 2007
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Re: Try This Urgent!
habichuelo wrote:
Try This Urgent!
Posted: 03-03-07 5:14pm

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Try this urgent!
Posted: 03-03-07 4:58pm

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nobody has told you the real way to get an extreme delicious orgasm to the woman,,,just try this,,,follow this instructions,,...
1)the woman have to laid on one side and lift one leg wide and high,,exposing her vaginal area and her anal area.
2)the man have to hold her lifted leg on one of his shoulder,,and...
3) with his fingertips he will caress and tickle her anal hole and vaginal center area with a lubricant.
4)do that for a while until the woman is very wet and very desperate for intercourse
5)now the man can start penetrating the woman in her vagina slowly,,
but only penetrate the penis head in the vagina several times until she get wildly desperate to be penetrated with his full lenght penis "" do it!!!."
6)this is the most important step,,,,,ok,,,,now while penetrating her vagina,,,the man will tickle and caress her anal hole,,,,also the man can penetrate only one fingertip into her anal hole and unplugin it quickly.
7)by doing this the orgasm on her will be extremely delicious and unforgotable,,,,,she will be extremely hook on this way of having sex,,,that she will be wanting it everyday more and more.



Ok once again, ignore habichuelo.
it maybe the way you feel about the two different people, it might be the way you let yourself go of yourself while your around that other person, umm or the comfort u feel with each differently, there are so many reasons, there is definantly nothing wrong with you, definantly.

p.s dont try that anal crap plz, he can blow it out his ass
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Tylanas
replied on April 23rd, 2007
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Re: Problems In Bed
mistherd13 wrote:
I lost my virginity to my now ex--we did 'it' twice, and both times I orgasmed and I guess I came. He was also able to get me to nearly orgasm when fingering me. A few months later i'm having intercourse with my now bf, but he's barely able to get me off, let alone get me to orgasm and come. I don't know what to do, or what to have him do. I feel like i've always had sexual problems--i never got anywhere masturbating. I get really wet during the sex and it feels good, but not anywhere near the orgasms I had with the previous bf. Does anyone have any suggestions?? I feel like i'm disappointing/letting down my bf, and i'd really like the pleasure myself.


First, for a woman, orgasming is coming. The only time they count as separate is if you are a "gusher"; but that's a whole different level of sex. For now, coming and orgasming for you, the female, are the same thing.

It sounds like your new boyfriend is not as good at fingering as your last boyfriend was! This isn't your fault.

You need to help guide him when something feels good, and try to do whatever worked with your old boyfriend.

*Vanessa* wrote:

p.s dont try that anal crap plz, he can blow it out his ass


Secondly, there is absolutely nothing wrong with anal sex. I happen to enjoy it, as a female! But anal take a lot of time and patience to do right.
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princessnae
replied on April 24th, 2007
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It's Not Your Fault
Really it's not your fault. Let your boyfriend know what feels good and where to go. Try toys- clitoral stimulation may help. Keep experimenting because every person is different and you just have to find your grove. Good luck.
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flipper
replied on April 24th, 2007
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Re: Problems In Bed
mistherd13 wrote:
I lost my virginity to my now ex--we did 'it' twice, and both times I orgasmed and I guess I came. He was also able to get me to nearly orgasm when fingering me. A few months later i'm having intercourse with my now bf, but he's barely able to get me off, let alone get me to orgasm and come. I don't know what to do, or what to have him do. I feel like i've always had sexual problems--i never got anywhere masturbating. I get really wet during the sex and it feels good, but not anywhere near the orgasms I had with the previous bf. Does anyone have any suggestions?? I feel like i'm disappointing/letting down my bf, and i'd really like the pleasure myself.
Aww, well if your previous boyfriend was able to get you so far, maybe the reason you haven't gotten so far with the new boyfriend is psycological? Like maybe you haven't been with him as long, or trust him quite as much? It's also possible that he's just not as in tune with your body as the old boyfriend was- like maybe he doesn't know exactly how to touch you the way you need him to. Maybe try remembering what exactly the last boyfriend did, so you can steer the new one in that direction.

Aside from that, it just takes experience to get things working like they should. Practice makes perfect. Smile
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BeautifulLiesx3
replied on April 24th, 2007
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I second that anal thing. I actually really enjoy anal sex too, as long as it's done correctly it's very enjoyable.
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Georgia59
replied on April 24th, 2007
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Regardless of if you like anal, just make sure you aren't getting both your anus and vagina fingered with the same finger, you will get nasty infections.


Always front to back, ladies. Wink
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