Joined: 09 Oct 2004 Posts: 52 Location: Jacksonville, Florida
Problems In Bed Posted: 09-18-05 23:32pm
I lost my virginity to my now ex--we did
'it' twice, and both times I orgasmed and
I guess I came. He was also able to get
me to nearly orgasm when fingering me. A
few months later i'm having intercourse
with my now bf, but he's barely able to
get me off, let alone get me to orgasm and
come. I don't know what to do, or what to
have him do. I feel like i've always had
sexual problems--i never got anywhere
masturbating. I get really wet during the
sex and it feels good, but not anywhere
near the orgasms I had with the previous
bf. Does anyone have any suggestions?? I
feel like i'm disappointing/letting down
my bf, and i'd really like the pleasure
myself.
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habichuelo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Mar 2007 Posts: 40 Location: humacao, pr pr
nobody has told you the real way to get an
extreme delicious orgasm to the
woman,,,just try this,,,follow this
instructions,,...
1)the woman have to laid on one side and
lift one leg wide and high,,exposing her
vaginal area and her anal area.
2)the man have to hold her lifted leg on
one of his shoulder,,and...
3) with his fingertips he will caress and
tickle her anal hole and vaginal center
area with a lubricant.
4)do that for a while until the woman is
very wet and very desperate for
intercourse
5)now the man can start penetrating the
woman in her vagina slowly,,
but only penetrate the penis head in the
vagina several times until she get wildly
desperate to be penetrated with his full
lenght penis "" do it!!!."
6)this is the most important
step,,,,,ok,,,,now while penetrating her
vagina,,,the man will tickle and caress
her anal hole,,,,also the man can
penetrate only one fingertip into her anal
hole and unplugin it quickly.
7)by doing this the orgasm on her will be
extremely delicious and
unforgotable,,,,,she will be extremely
hook on this way of having sex,,,that she
will be wanting it everyday more and more.
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*Vanessa*
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Apr 2007 Posts: 111 Location: Australia
nobody has told you the real way to get an
extreme delicious orgasm to the
woman,,,just try this,,,follow this
instructions,,...
1)the woman have to laid on one side and
lift one leg wide and high,,exposing her
vaginal area and her anal area.
2)the man have to hold her lifted leg on
one of his shoulder,,and...
3) with his fingertips he will caress and
tickle her anal hole and vaginal center
area with a lubricant.
4)do that for a while until the woman is
very wet and very desperate for
intercourse
5)now the man can start penetrating the
woman in her vagina slowly,,
but only penetrate the penis head in the
vagina several times until she get wildly
desperate to be penetrated with his full
lenght penis "" do it!!!."
6)this is the most important
step,,,,,ok,,,,now while penetrating her
vagina,,,the man will tickle and caress
her anal hole,,,,also the man can
penetrate only one fingertip into her anal
hole and unplugin it quickly.
7)by doing this the orgasm on her will be
extremely delicious and
unforgotable,,,,,she will be extremely
hook on this way of having sex,,,that she
will be wanting it everyday more and
more.
Ok once again, ignore habichuelo.
it maybe the way you feel about the two
different people, it might be the way you
let yourself go of yourself while your
around that other person, umm or the
comfort u feel with each differently,
there are so many reasons, there is
definantly nothing wrong with you,
definantly.
p.s dont try that anal crap plz, he can
blow it out his ass
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Tylanas
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Re: Problems In Bed Posted: 04-23-07 22:43pm
mistherd13
wrote:
I lost my virginity to my
now ex--we did 'it' twice, and both times
I orgasmed and I guess I came. He was
also able to get me to nearly orgasm when
fingering me. A few months later i'm
having intercourse with my now bf, but
he's barely able to get me off, let alone
get me to orgasm and come. I don't know
what to do, or what to have him do. I
feel like i've always had sexual
problems--i never got anywhere
masturbating. I get really wet during the
sex and it feels good, but not anywhere
near the orgasms I had with the previous
bf. Does anyone have any suggestions?? I
feel like i'm disappointing/letting down
my bf, and i'd really like the pleasure
myself.
First, for a woman, orgasming is
coming. The only time they count as
separate is if you are a "gusher"; but
that's a whole different level of sex. For
now, coming and orgasming for you, the
female, are the same thing.
It sounds like your new boyfriend is not
as good at fingering as your last
boyfriend was! This isn't your fault.
You need to help guide him when something
feels good, and try to do whatever worked
with your old boyfriend.
*Vanessa*
wrote:
p.s dont try that anal crap plz, he can
blow it out his
ass
Secondly, there is absolutely nothing
wrong with anal sex. I happen to enjoy it,
as a female! But anal take a lot of time
and patience to do right.
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princessnae
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Apr 2007 Posts: 90
It's Not Your Fault Posted: 04-24-07 02:22am
Really it's not your fault. Let your
boyfriend know what feels good and where
to go. Try toys- clitoral stimulation may
help. Keep experimenting because every
person is different and you just have to
find your grove. Good luck.
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flipper
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Mar 2006 Posts: 134 Location: Texas
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Re: Problems In Bed Posted: 04-24-07 09:28am
mistherd13
wrote:
I lost my virginity to my
now ex--we did 'it' twice, and both times
I orgasmed and I guess I came. He was
also able to get me to nearly orgasm when
fingering me. A few months later i'm
having intercourse with my now bf, but
he's barely able to get me off, let alone
get me to orgasm and come. I don't know
what to do, or what to have him do. I
feel like i've always had sexual
problems--i never got anywhere
masturbating. I get really wet during the
sex and it feels good, but not anywhere
near the orgasms I had with the previous
bf. Does anyone have any suggestions?? I
feel like i'm disappointing/letting down
my bf, and i'd really like the pleasure
myself.
Aww, well if your
previous boyfriend was able to get you so
far, maybe the reason you haven't gotten
so far with the new boyfriend is
psycological? Like maybe you haven't been
with him as long, or trust him quite as
much? It's also possible that he's just
not as in tune with your body as the old
boyfriend was- like maybe he doesn't know
exactly how to touch you the way you need
him to. Maybe try remembering what
exactly the last boyfriend did, so you can
steer the new one in that direction.
Aside from that, it just takes experience
to get things working like they should.
Practice makes perfect.
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BeautifulLiesx3
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Dec 2006 Posts: 73
Posted: 04-24-07 14:14pm
I second that anal thing. I actually
really enjoy anal sex too, as long as it's
done correctly it's very enjoyable.
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Georgia59
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Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 5557 Location: Along the Mississippi, USA
Thanks: 90
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Posted: 04-24-07 15:11pm
Regardless of if you like anal, just make
sure you aren't getting both your anus and
vagina fingered with the same finger, you
will get nasty infections.
