I had this problem for the past 10 months. I was sure something was wrong with me. Sometimes with my girlfriend I couldnt finish sex. I'm 24 and completely healthy.

Today ive masterbated 8 times and all 8 times my erections were rock hard and lasting. This morning I realized what my problem is and you might have the same one.

One night 10 months ago I lost my erection during sex. It flipped me out completely. Ever since then, ive never really had a complete erection until today. I found I had gotten into a cycle. Everytime i'd think about sex, i'd think about the time I lost my erection, thus making it impossible for me to even get one. Today I just stopped thinking about it and voila!

You're in your sexual prime and I doubt you have anything physical going on with you. I've talked to my buddies about this alot man and it seems sometimes alot of guys have this problem for some period of time.

When was the first time you noticed this, and are you stressed out and anxious alot? These things impact your sexual state incredibly. No matter how hot you think a girl is and no matter how bad you want to have sex, if you are even remotely thinking about anything that has to do with erections problems, you won't be able to function normally, if at all.

I was so worried after 10 months of having issues with this, and my relationship with my girlfeind literaly ending. I was constantly depressed about it and was going to see a doctor soon. Turns out it's all mental in my case, and i'd bet my life its the same for you. Give me some idea of whats going on in your life, school, girls, depression, guilt..???

Im 19 also, and sexually active. Anout a year ago I had my freakin dream girl in bed and could'nt get it up. Its tramatized me ever since, I can only get hard like I used to be when im with my first girlfriend who I used bone constantly lol im actually going to see a doctor about it this week. I need somethin to get my confidence back, but hey I ordered some enzyte, we'll see what happens lol.

Good luck man, your not alone.

Firefox makes a good point.
Ronniecapo: there are a number of threads on this same topic. Many suggest that you simply are to nervous about not performing up to "your standards" or not saitisfying her that causes a loss of erection in these cases. I'll see if I can pin-point a few of those threads for you.

Ronniecapo: here a few of the threads. Some of them apply more to you than others. I hope they help.

Http://ehealthforum.Com/health/topic29669. Html
http://ehealthforum.Com/health/topic34953. Html
http://ehealthforum.Com/health/topic37033. Html

Thanks cd, I appreciate it :d

hi there,

i can help but will require more info from you first.

Do you drink much alcohol? If so how much?
Are you on any medications? Do you take drugs?

When anybody has any sexual related problems it is a serious subject so I would like to know how you are today ? Is the problems getting any better?

Hello everyone and thanks for your replies. No i'm not on any medications and I don't drink or smoke. The problem has not gotten any better. I don't understand why this is happening, I know it can't be because i'm nervous or something cause i'm not even having sex.

Ok when did you start masturbating and how often?

Have you tried any penile damage exercises ie
jelking, penile weightlifting, tying elastic bands around penile base?

It sounds to me you have damaged the penile tissues causing colagen to be filled up there. Is their numbness in any part of your penis?


What is your diet like?

I started masturbating at about 15. I wouldnt say I masturbate any more than the average person, once every day or two. To tell you the truth you're idea sounds silly, but if this is true is how do I correct it?

in order to produce a spontaneous, harder and longer erection you must produce more prostaglandin e1 in your penile tissues and by taking daily

3000mg fish oil
3000mg borage oil
1500mg l-arginine

will boost the prostaglandin e1 synethisis and help you gradually rejuvenate his neuro-endocrine function and to excite your noergic/oxytonergic nervous system for health and sex.

Try this out for a month and see if you notice any improvements. Let us know how you get on.

I havebeen taking the above prostaglandin e1 therapy for many months now and it is helpng my semen production, refractory time, erection power and stamina also you should notice more spontaneous erections.

Limit your ejaculation practises to twice a week as you are but try not to over stimulate your uretha, this will provide a natural recovery to you hopefully.

Do you feel any numbness in your penile tissues?
Do you experience precum flooding at all?
Do you experience much morning erection?

if you do decide to go with this method, be sure you use fish oil capsules with the most omega-3 percentage you can find (~75-80%). Capsules with amounts like 30% contain an extra amount of fatty acid in place of the omega-3 and are more likely to cause unwanted side effects and simply increase the number of capsules you have to take. Be forewarnd that these capsules can have side effects including diarrhea, stomach problems, flatulence, bloating, nausea, indigestion, and headaches for the duration of their use. (additionally, extended use of fish oils may reduce the body's ability to form blood clots, while borage oil has a tendency to thin the blood, and extended use may cause liver damage; studies show that it may have cancer-causing properties. There should be nothing to worry about with the l-arginine though. :wink: ) you might want to contact a doctor before starting a program like this, but as always, the choice is yours.



Feel free to do as you like, but much of this advice is that that is given over at "actionlove." some say it works (as does learn4life I presume), some say it doesn't. Some things work for some people, but don't work for others. Some people swear by it, others are left unsatisfied from "treatments" that don't work. I'm neither in support of or against actionlove; I am simply here to let you know the facts. The choice is yours; and good luck with whatever you choose to do.

Try some sex enhancement products, some actually work and may kick you in gear

thanks for your info's. Yes please try the liquid formula instead.(bottled)it contains

2800mg of omega 3
1300 epa

10ml spoonful


borage oil(bottled)

3ml = 2745mg of borage oil(starflower)
567mg gla

make sure to split the dosage so it is fully absorbed by the body.

My parents have been taking the fish oils to help with their stiff joints and eye vision and also two of my friends are taking Dr.Lins natural prostaglandin e1 therapy and have experienced good results from it.

From my expereince Dr.Lin has helped me recover from over masturbation and ejaculation since age 11(twice a day, every day till aged age 17.
Penile damage by penile stretching, penile breakage of left base, jelking hanging
8kg weights on penis, tying 3-5 plastic bands extremely tightly around the penile base,
over practicing pc muscle clenches which caused penile precum leakage constantly, overdrinking to the extent of passing out many times and smoking hash.

The penile ballooning heat massage with vip cream using sexual chikong will help to repair penile damage done from the above as experienced by myself.

The repair percentage depends on how severe the damage is.

Hope this is helpful.

"if you think education is expensive you should try ignorance."

Thanks for all the replies. But no thanks as far as all the vitamins go. I just want to find out what is causing the problem and correct it without taking drugs. I find it hard to believe that it's "a mental problem". I honestly thing it has something to do with horomones, but im not a doctor, so who knows. I'm getting really fed up with it though. :(

I have been having the same problems as you for a year and a half. I am 20 now and have seen two doctors and three urologists and they think it is all in my head, but I dont because I dont really masturbate and dont think about sex that much. But I noticed that even with viagra, if your nervous then nothing helps. Sometimes having a few drinks and taking viagra helps, I know thats not a medical solution but sometimes it works, write me back if you found anything that helped as I am still having this problem

I am a veteran of impotence, I have fought it for more than 5.6 years.


The best of traditional chinese medicine tonics, the best of Dr.Lin (actionlove), dave w's improvement to Dr.Lin, the techniques of alan ritz and william j's answer. I've seen it all.


Don't let anyone tell you that it's all in your head, your neurotransmitters, hormones and minerals are deficient due to your excessive sexual activities, stress or drug use.