My brother was killed in iraq its hell out there I tell ya one minute he was walking through an evacuated area to the west of the strip next thing you know the sgt is standing at my front door with a crisply folded flag
at least he died for a good cause just like your husband

Ok just to tell you that arthur, that replied to you is absoulty nuts. He has been posting things to people all over the forums, I think he is taking the piss out of everybodies problems so ignore any posts from him. Just feel sorry for him because to make little of other people's problems is pretty bad but its says alot about the problems he has, I feel so sorry for him, he needs more help then us.

Yeah thats kinda messed up.. Why wud you say that to someone.. I find that really messed up... And taht makes me feel a whole lot better.. Thanks arthur.. Youve taken all the stress off me.
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It doesn't sound like it's killing you, it's sounds like it's killing him!

Wow am I glad I live in canada..No chance my fiance could be shipped off, even if he was in the army.

If you are pregnant, maybe they would let him come home early? I don't really know what the us army is like but maybe they would make a special allowance for you?

Good luck

Wow am I glad I live in canada..No chance my fiance could be shipped off, even if he was in the army.

If you are pregnant, maybe they would let him come home early? I don't really know what the us army is like but maybe they would make a special allowance for you?

Good luck

[quote="babysteph"]ive had bad depression probs for years now.. But every since ive gotten married, ive been so happy.. Never been happier.. But hes in the army.. And its hell being an army wife.. But I didnt mind it much.. Till now.. Hes being deployed to iraq in one week.. And its been stressing me out so bad.. Its killing me.. Theres lots more to it.. But does anyone kno how I can get thru this better?? My depression is not helping at all.. Making it worse. And theres something else.. I mite be pregnant.. So this is really really hard on me.. And im not handling it well at all.. I have some other posts in all the pregnancy forums.. So if you wanna kno the whole story.. Check them out. But if theres anything anyone cud help me with at all about this.. Some advice or anything.. Just plz let me kno something. Please reply! I wud love to hear from anyone. And if you'd like to pm.. Go for it!
i am sorry you are bummed. Anyway, I thought your blood tests came back negative? Are you still feeling pregnant? If so, I would check back in with the doctor to make sure there is nothing else wrong. All in all, it is probably just stress related.

Im sorry for whats going on. Please pray! I know its easy said that if u pray your not alone and you will feel better but just talk to god and let him know you are hurting. He already knows but he likes to know you believe he is there. If your pregnant thats great! You will always have a physical piece of him to hold on to while he is away. If not you still have each others love for one another. If you ever need any one to talk to im here! I know how it feels my sister was in the army and I was scared every day for her. But thats your life partner so I know its different. :?

I am so sorry. I didnt catch if you were pregnant or not but if you are maybe they will let him come home early. My best friends grandfather died several months ago and they let him come home for two weeks I mean that was better than nothing you know. I think that they would let him come home early for this situation and maybe he would get longer.


I am so greatful for everything that our men and woman have done for us over there. Well fighting in general. I dont even know you all but I love you and am truly greatful. God bless you and he will be home soon to you