My Hubby Is Going to Iraq... And Its Killing Me.. Posted: 09-18-05 20:01pm
Ive had bad depression probs for years
now.. But every since ive gotten married,
ive been so happy.. Never been happier..
But hes in the army.. And its hell being
an army wife.. But I didnt mind it much..
Till now.. Hes being deployed to iraq in
one week.. And its been stressing me out
so bad.. Its killing me.. Theres lots
more to it.. But does anyone kno how I
can get thru this better?? My depression
is not helping at all.. Making it worse.
And theres something else.. I mite be
pregnant.. So this is really really hard
on me.. And im not handling it well at
all.. I have some other posts in all the
pregnancy forums.. So if you wanna kno
the whole story.. Check them out. But if
theres anything anyone cud help me with at
all about this.. Some advice or
anything.. Just plz let me kno something.
Please reply! I wud love to hear from
anyone. And if you'd like to pm.. Go for
it! Or my email is: step
hmccosh@hotmail.Com
thanks.
:cry:
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arthur ices
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2005 Posts: 7
Posted: 09-20-05 08:16am
My brother was killed in iraq its hell out
there I tell ya one minute he was walking
through an evacuated area to the west of
the strip next thing you know the sgt is
standing at my front door with a crisply
folded flag
at least he died for a good cause just
like your husband
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lostoyou
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jan 2004 Posts: 170 Location: Ireland
Posted: 09-20-05 14:03pm
Ok just to tell you that arthur, that
replied to you is absoulty nuts. He has
been posting things to people all over the
forums, I think he is taking the piss out
of everybodies problems so ignore any
posts from him. Just feel sorry for him
because to make little of other people's
problems is pretty bad but its says alot
about the problems he has, I feel so sorry
for him, he needs more help then us.
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BabySteph
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Sep 2005 Posts: 67
Posted: 09-20-05 18:33pm
Yeah thats kinda messed up.. Why wud you
say that to someone.. I find that really
messed up... And taht makes me feel a
whole lot better.. Thanks arthur.. Youve
taken all the stress off me.
:roll:
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Hightension24
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Aug 2005 Posts: 65 Location: Houston
Posted: 09-25-05 03:42am
It doesn't sound like it's killing you,
it's sounds like it's killing him!
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lilmissy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2005 Posts: 6
Posted: 09-25-05 15:33pm
Wow am I glad I live in canada..No chance
my fiance could be shipped off, even if he
was in the army.
If you are pregnant, maybe they would let
him come home early? I don't really know
what the us army is like but maybe they
would make a special allowance for you?
Good luck
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lilmissy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2005 Posts: 6
Posted: 09-25-05 15:33pm
Wow am I glad I live in canada..No chance
my fiance could be shipped off, even if he
was in the army.
If you are pregnant, maybe they would let
him come home early? I don't really know
what the us army is like but maybe they
would make a special allowance for you?
Good luck
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Happiness03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jul 2005 Posts: 333
Re: My Hubby Is Going to Iraq... And Its Killing Me.. Posted: 09-25-05 15:37pm
[quote="babysteph"]ive had bad depression
probs for years now.. But every since
ive gotten married, ive been so happy..
Never been happier.. But hes in the
army.. And its hell being an army wife..
But I didnt mind it much.. Till now..
Hes being deployed to iraq in one week..
And its been stressing me out so bad..
Its killing me.. Theres lots more to
it.. But does anyone kno how I can get
thru this better?? My depression is not
helping at all.. Making it worse. And
theres something else.. I mite be
pregnant.. So this is really really hard
on me.. And im not handling it well at
all.. I have some other posts in all the
pregnancy forums.. So if you wanna kno
the whole story.. Check them out. But
if theres anything anyone cud help me with
at all about this.. Some advice or
anything.. Just plz let me kno
something. Please reply! I wud love to
hear from anyone. And if you'd like to
pm.. Go for it! Or my email is: step
hmccosh@hotmail.Com
i am sorry you are bummed. Anyway, I
thought your blood tests came back
negative? Are you still feeling pregnant?
If so, I would check back in with the
doctor to make sure there is nothing else
wrong. All in all, it is probably just
stress related.
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Saniya
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Sep 2005 Posts: 11 Location: Texas
You Will Make It Through! Posted: 09-25-05 19:26pm
Im sorry for whats going on. Please pray!
I know its easy said that if u pray your
not alone and you will feel better but
just talk to god and let him know you are
hurting. He already knows but he likes to
know you believe he is there. If your
pregnant thats great! You will always
have a physical piece of him to hold on to
while he is away. If not you still have
each others love for one another. If you
ever need any one to talk to im here! I
know how it feels my sister was in the
army and I was scared every day for her.
But thats your life partner so I know its
different. :?
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angel6932
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Aug 2005 Posts: 788 Location: US
Posted: 09-25-05 19:52pm
I am so sorry. I didnt catch if you were
pregnant or not but if you are maybe they
will let him come home early. My best
friends grandfather died several months
ago and they let him come home for two
weeks I mean that was better than nothing
you know. I think that they would let him
come home early for this situation and
maybe he would get longer.
I am so greatful for everything that our
men and woman have done for us over there.
Well fighting in general. I dont even
know you all but I love you and am truly
greatful. God bless you and he will be
home soon to you
