My Girlfriend On Birthcontrol... Why Am I Still Worried!? Posted: 09-18-05 19:46pm
Alright well last thursday my girlfriend
and I went into planned parenthood and she
got the shot (dpma). We talked with the
women along time and made sure we got all
the facts worked out. So heres the
situaion. My girlfriend started her
period last sunday night, we went in on
thursday afternoon and she got the shot.
The doctor told her that since it was only
her 4th or so day and not the end of the
5th day of her period... That we would be
able to have unprotected sex that day!
Well I was kind of skepticle about this
but I dont think they would lie. Well
after she got the shot we were both pretty
busy until saturday night... When we had
unprotected sex and I ejaculated inside of
her. Well its the next day now and im
kinda nervous and so is she. Today she
told me she was having some cramps and
that really scared her but I dont think
that has anything to do with it or could.
Please reassure me!
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wife2jason_mom2ryley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2005 Posts: 288 Location: Amherst VA
Posted: 09-20-05 17:08pm
It is totally normal for you to be
nervous!! Ecspically if this was the
first time the two of you had sex without
using a condom. The cramps she is
experiencing is probably due to the birht
control shot. I promise you that she
wouldn't be having preg signs yet!!! Good
luck and relax!!!
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countrychic05
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Sep 2005 Posts: 22 Location: Indiana
Birth Control Posted: 09-21-05 13:20pm
Not to worry. I would say that the
cramps are from the birth control. I am
on the birth control shot myself, and
after my first shot I had really bad
cramping too. I can honestly say that I
don't think that the cramps are related to
being pregnant. Hope this helps and good
luck to you both.
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spooled2k3
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Feb 2006 Posts: 49 Location: chicago
Posted: 03-25-06 21:36pm
My girlfriend was in the same situation,
but she was not on her period when she got
the shot, so we had to wait a week before
having unprotected sex. Although it was
more like 3 months before we had
unprotected sex I still owrry sometimes
now over a year later. I normally do not
ejaculate inside her without a condom on.
I just prefer the condom be on.
Sometimes she asks why, and reassurse me
the bc works, and I know it does but I
dont know.
Anyways, she had the same kind of cramps.
She actually said they were more painful
than ever for the first month but since
then she has gotten probably one period.
Everynow and then I will get her to take a
p test for my sake.. So I dont go
instane.. But, the bc does work.
