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Q: Please Help Pull-out Method?

asked by: Drzbanqiinmamii on September 17th, 2005

New User

Alright me and my boyfriend been together for a month now, we started having sex on sept 9 with da pull-out method he didnt cum inside of me cuz when he was going to cum he pull me away n he jerked it off n he came. Then on the 11 of sept was the same he pulled me away and on da 15 of sept too..I got my period on august4 and left on da 8..Then I got it again on da 28 of august and it left on the 3rd of september.But I am worry if he had cum inside of me, he says he didnt.But maybe the pre-cum...But im worry if im pregrant and I havent get my period yet,but I feel normal and everthing.But I am scared if am pregrant pleasseeee help???? :oops:

Replies(14)

Whitney4768

replied on September 17th, 2005

Experienced User

Just Relax

Stay calm my husband and I do the same thing I know its bad I worry too my period is due tomorrow. But if you think you are take a test I suggest going to the doctor about your periods!! Good luck

JASMlNE

replied on September 18th, 2005

New User

Yes, you should buy a pregnancy test if you don't know what else to do and if you don't want to go to the doctor. The expensive ones can tell you if you're pregnant before you get your period.

And my advice to you is, you shouldn't do the "pull out" if you hate worrying like this. Use a condom. It helps you in more way than one.

KimX

replied on September 18th, 2005

New User

Pull out is not safe. U have the risk to get pregnant.

Happiness03

replied on September 18th, 2005

Experienced User

Re: Please Help Pull-out Method?

drzbanqiinmamii wrote:

alright me and my boyfriend been together for a month now, we started having sex on sept 9 with da pull-out method he didnt cum inside of me cuz when he was going to cum he pull me away n he jerked it off n he came. Then on the 11 of sept was the same he pulled me away and on da 15 of sept too..I got my period on august4 and left on da 8..Then I got it again on da 28 of august and it left on the 3rd of september.But I am worry if he had cum inside of me, he says he didnt.But maybe the pre-cum...But im worry if im pregrant and I havent get my period yet,but I feel normal and everthing.But I am scared if am pregrant pleasseeee help???? :oops:

sounds like, if you end up not to be pregnant, getting on some type of birth control sounds like a pretty good idea. And yes, you very well could be pregnant, because there was pre-cum, and you still risk the chances of getting pregnant just from that. Just use caution.

Drzbanqiinmamii

replied on September 18th, 2005

New User

Yeahh I know...But he aint pre-cum but my period aint due yet..Its suppose to cum on sept 23 so I culd still wait or take da pregrancy test???

Happiness03

replied on September 18th, 2005

Experienced User

drzbanqiinmamii wrote:

yeahh I know...But he aint pre-cum but my period aint due yet..Its suppose to cum on sept 23 so I culd still wait or take da pregrancy test???

there is always precum with sex. Precum is the nourishment for the sperm. It is vital that this is present, because with out it, men's sperm wouldn't live outside of their own body. If your partner cums, then there was precum involved. Hence the name "pre-cum", meaning "before cum". You can take a test up to 4 or 5 days before your expected period, or you can just wait until you miss your period to take the test.

msbradford

replied on September 19th, 2005

New User

Re: Please Help Pull-out Method?

Girl I am 15 and my boyfriend and I use a condom and most of the time I still think he should pull out...But if you guys insist on having unprotected sex, do both of yall a favor and get on birthcontrol.U should always use a condom anyway because you never know whats out there, even if that is your bf...

Msb

Jessrne

replied on September 21st, 2005

New User

Go to the Drug Store

You've still have 2 days before your period and some pregnancy test can tell up to 4 days before your period. Do everyone a favor when you go and get the test, pick up a pack of condoms, there less than the test. Condoms also help keep you safe against stds or sti, which ever you say. You won't be putting yourself through all this trouble if you get some and they are much less then the price of raising a baby.

Pre-cum often contains sperm and the guy won't even be able to tell when he has or not. If you still feel that a condom isn't the answer then go and see you doctor to be placed on the pill.

wife2jason_mom2ryley

replied on September 21st, 2005

Experienced User

the Pull Out Method Does Not Work

Atleast it didn't for my husband and i. The first time we had sex using the pull out method I got pregnant. We normally used condoms but on that one occasion we didn't have one...And I know for a fact that he pulled out. I don't regret our son r anyting...He truley is a blessing. I'm just trying to let you knw that if you don't want children right now you should use some kind of birth control. Why don't you guys use condoms?? Well good luck with everything. Oh, and if you are pregnant..It'll be fine, youhave many opions.(not saying abortion is one of them...But it's your life)

teresa

iwatchedthesky

replied on October 12th, 2005

New User

You can get pregant with the pull out method. There is always precum and it can get you pregant just as much as regular cum.

Jocelyne

replied on October 13th, 2005

Experienced User

First of all the pull out method is not a birth control method..Many women get pregnant that way....Second you should get on birth control and use a condom really better safe then sorry..Unless your ready to be pregnant have safe sex

nursechick

replied on October 15th, 2005

New User

At 16 I got prgnant using the "pull out method" smart huh??? Oh well wouldnt change it for the world 23 yo mama 6 yr old baby

Lilypad

replied on October 17th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

The pull-out method is only okay if you dont really care if maybe you get pregnant. If you absolutely dont want a baby, please be more responsible and get some condoms at least

Anonymous

replied on December 23rd, 2008

it doesn't work

the pull out method doesn't work as so previosly described above it only "works in the movies" so keep it wrapped up or be a father like me.

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