Ok I am 36 weeks pregnant. Several months ago I got really sick and so me and my husband quit having sex well then it became a mutial masterbation thing. Well now I am starting my 9month and I feel great well some days I dont. I was wondering my husband is terrified that he will hurt me or the baby if we have sex but I have heard that he wont. He says that bc of me already being 2cm dilated that he might hurt me or the baby.

What can I do to change his mind? I am so blessed that he is so carring enough to worry about us but the truth is I have ask our dr and read online that it is fine and that it might even help speed up labor. We have tried alot of thing to bring on labor so it wouldnt be a bad thing if it did. But I really miss that intamcy with my husband. I dont know what to do I have tried everything and when I say everything I mean everything please help me somebody.