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Q: I Hate Being Pregnant!!!
asked by: leah23 on September 17th, 2005
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Im depressed and sick and worried and feel guilty about all of the above!!
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Miss_KellieAnne
replied on September 17th, 2005
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Get an abortion if you hate it so much, simple.
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justacanadiangirl
replied on September 17th, 2005
Extremely eHealthy
What the hell kind of advice is that?! What's wrong with u?


Don't worry hun. It's natural to worry. It will get better eventually. You just have to deal with a little bad stuff first. Good luck hun.
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Miss_KellieAnne
replied on September 17th, 2005
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Meh I suppose im being a little health forum
i hate hearing people whinge about being pregnant, try filling my shoes one day.

Love you hate being pregnant?
Get over it.
Try it when you love being pregnant and then give birth to identical twin girls that die.

You'd hate that much more wouldnt you?
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justacanadiangirl
replied on September 17th, 2005
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Just because something bad has happened to u doesn't mean u need to health forum at everyone else. She's not whining, she's concerned because of a previous miscarriage. And yes, u were being a health forum. Glad u noticed that. Ur not the only one who has lost a baby. Keep that in mind before u look down on everyone else again.
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Miss_KellieAnne
replied on September 17th, 2005
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Well how the hell did I know that she was worried?

I dont personally know her.
Im sure i'd be worried too

*sigh***

sorrrreeeeeee
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justacanadiangirl
replied on September 17th, 2005
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:roll: u read previous posts that's how. And u don't jump to conclusions. Plus, it says "worried" in her comment.... Jeez. Way to read. Good job :)
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fatfamily02
replied on September 17th, 2005
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Ladies, ladies, ladies please no fighting make mama cry!!!

Hi canadian girl, hi miss kellie, hi again leah--i do understand where miss kellies coming from though. You love them so much and would give your own arm or leg to bring them back and all these girls come on here and say they wanna homicide them, or wished they werent preg--which by the way I dont think leah says that. And it hurts so bad especially when the wounds in miss kellie are so fresh with a sharp knife edge still.

I love all you girls and this makes my day just to be here. Husband thinks im crazy.

No news for my situation still but I felt my babe roll over yesterday, and husband felt movement for the first time. He flipped, he dont really "believe" he told me I need to drive to indianapolis to get seen for real drs. But I just say god will allow them to see when he is ready--not when I am!!! I guess im still waiting.

I love you all
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Miss_KellieAnne
replied on September 17th, 2005
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Thanks jo

your a legend :)
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MaddoxandMason001
replied on September 17th, 2005
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Im 21 and have 4 year old twin boys and I gave birth to a baby girl on july 28th 2004 she died of sids early in the morning of august 18th 2004.It was the hardest thing ive ever been through seeing my little kinsley laying in a casket no bigger than a pizza box. I blamed myself for a long time.On august 27th I was charged with child neglect because I let kinsley sleep in the bed with me instead of a crib, I slept with my boys the until they were almost 8 months old and never thought of sleeping with my own da*n child "neglecting" her.I also hate when girls complain of being pregnant and wanting an abortion because they can't party or drink anymore and go out do what they please.And to misskellieanne, you have to keep your head up, god took your babies for a reason and now they're home.
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seksiHily
replied on September 17th, 2005
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Not to be rude, but it gets harder, most women are miserable the last 5 weeks of pregnancy, but it does seem petty and upsetting to those who are unable to carry children that people are complaining about what they want so badly.
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Sarah1978
replied on September 19th, 2005
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The least you could do here leah23 is reply and explain what you meant by your post.
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justacanadiangirl
replied on September 19th, 2005
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She explained that in another post she wrote previous to this one. Am I the only one who read that???
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Sarah1978
replied on September 19th, 2005
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I think maybe you were you only one who seen that which is why the first post has upset so many people. I think an explainantion would please alot of people and it isn't much to ask
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justacanadiangirl
replied on September 21st, 2005
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I've pretty much given up on most of ehealth now. Too many ppl fight, too many ppl just screw around and make us stories... It used to help a lot but not so much anymore. The only ppl who really answer any of my questions seriously or with an actual answer are ppl I talk to on another board anyways...
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Sarah1978
replied on September 21st, 2005
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Justacanadiangirl

i pretty much agree with you. I haven't been here long but I don't think i'll be staying. This place seems like a bunch of 12yr old kids making up stories.
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JuneBugzMamazExpectin
replied on September 21st, 2005
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leah23

ito with fatfamily02..

Ladies! Lets not nag on eachother about this. Obviously she was just venting. I'm 21 weeks today, and i'm soooo tired of being pregnant.

Ofcourse I love the fact that I have a little guy growing inside of me, but I bet everyone on here has had their time of wishing it wasn't so hard.

Keep your head up leah23, everything pans out to a good ending... You'll see :)
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Lilypad
replied on October 17th, 2005
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Its okay to hate being pregnant. I felt that way too. I really regretted saying it after I lost mine at 5 months but I never wanted to lose my baby either. I was very uncomfortable during my pregnancy, I quit smoking which was so so hard and I retained water and my feet and back were killing me. I also was working a job where I was on my feet for 12 hours a day and doing heavy lifting. Just because you didnt like the aches and pains of pregnancy doesnt mean you didnt want to be pregnant or didnt want your baby.
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