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Q: Sticky Situation, I Need Advice
asked by: dragoncheese on September 15th, 2005
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Now this is about a really good friend (not myself) but I really want to help her...(i'm a guy, but not a boyfriend)...

Anyway, I went on a travel program with my camp, and made many friends. One of them, I unfortunately didn't meet until there were 3 days left, but we became great friends along with a few other people.

Now I unfortunately had to go home and work when they all went to camp and had a great time. But that isn't the point...She told me that she has suffered from depression before because of a lot of family trouble, but she was fine on travel and at camp.

Also while on travel, she had a boyfriend, who mistreated her in many ways. She eventually dumped him by the end of travel, but he travels down to where she lives every so often. She's freaked out enough at him to put hurricane shutters on her window...

She also says that she's starting to get depressed again (she used to cut herself) because of being scared of her x and missing us so much. But as a good friend, I don't want her to do anything harmful to herself again.

Unfortunately, she lives in florida and I live in new jersey, so there isn't much I can do directly. She says she's seen psychiatrists but they don't help. I'm visiting her over christmas time, but i'm scared she's going to do something drastic.

Please, is there anything I can do to help her? Thank you.
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dragoncheese
replied on September 16th, 2005
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Please, I want to help her...
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Pandoras_Box
replied on September 22nd, 2005
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Sadly there is little you can do being so far away :( you will just have to make sure she knows you will be there for her and love her unconditionally. You will have to try your best to keep her alive till christmas time. I have schizophrenia and it can really get out of hand sometime so my boyfriend who is 2 hours drive away brought me a puppy and having that puppy knowing he cares about me really helps me not do anything stupid. Maybe buy her a gift for her to be able to hug and squeeze when she feels down and remind her she has someone who cares. I really hope she takes care of her self :( and you aswell
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dragoncheese
replied on September 23rd, 2005
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Thanks for your reply, but somehow, I actually managed to really cheer her up. She's happy again, and hopefully she wont fall into another depression.
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dragoncheese
replied on September 24th, 2005
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Omg I spoke too soon. Wow I can't believe my luck. She had four dogs, but the other day, her favorite one died. This isn't gonna be easy....
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Pandoras_Box
replied on September 25th, 2005
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:( I hope you and her get through it, all my best wishes
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