Somebody please respond! I feel like i'm the only one.

Well.. I have "just" a gf (means not a wife), maybe it is not the same. But anyway I would never want her to have sex with somebody else. That doesn't turn me on at all. But that is just my way of thinking.

Some people do "share" their wife without looking crazy or having a weird relationship. Not many of course. But some do.
Anyway, even if it never happened before it's not like you are not allowed to do an exception. If you, your wife and the 3rd man sexpartner all agree to do it.. Why not?

But don't scream it out too loud. People will quickly say things your wife is a b**** or that you are an unsatisfying loser, etc. Because of that.

Watch out because once such a thought is made, you can't get rid of it.

Hey there!!! Yep hubby and I have done that plenty of times. We have done it with just a guy, which was kinda sexy, but I found was even better was having another couple join us!!!! That was great and would do it again anyday. You just have to make sure before you start that you lay down the ground rules (like all or nothing) and you should have no probs. Good luck and have fun!!!! :)

how old are you?

34 been married 14 years. I think we are better off just talking about it.
That way it's really still just between us.

For some couples this works. For others it ruins them. You will have to be willing to risk losing the relationship should it turn that way.

same age me! Well, you've been married a long time, so it's not unusual or weird to want to add some variety to your sex life. If you can find another couple willing to do it, and your wife agrees, it might not hurt, but...It could lead to problems down the line. What does your heart tell you?

Well after I masturbate or after we have sex, my heart says we shouldn't. But before and during my heart says yes I want to be filthy with a room full of people. So i'm thinking it's better to just day dream about it, than to actually try it.

try it with a guy.

Define guilt.

If I were you I would just continue with the fantasy. If you do act on it be prepared to accept the consequences. What if she decides that she likes the other guy more than she does you? Or perhaps she starts to resent you for making her do something she had no intension in doing, but because she loves you she submits and regrets it. You can no longer take your actions back. If you do commit to doing it be prepare to have your marriage end. If it is something that you both want be sure that the foundation of your marriage can stand secure.