Hey all. I was just wondering about
premature ejaculation. I have been with
my boyfriend for about 6 months and
lately he has been cuming prematurely. He
gets really upset about it n I just tell
him not to worry. It doesnt really bother
me cos I figure he is having such a good
time it must feel better or sumthing... I
dunno. Im not really sure why its
happening but I was wondering if anyone
has experienced this, is it any different
- basically im trying to say does it feel
better than normal and if so what is the
problem (besides the girl not getting
off)... Why do guys get so embarrassed
about it
?
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samy444
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2005 Posts: 72
Posted: 09-13-05 06:21am
Actually no, it doesnt feel better for few
reasons, first he is not getting the
chance and time to enjoy the sexual
intercourse which is better when you have
enough time, second, it is a very bad
feeling for a man when he know for sure
that he finished very quickly and his girl
may didnt even start
hope this will help....
By the way how bad is his premature, I
mean 2 minutes or what?
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angel6932
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Aug 2005 Posts: 788 Location: US
Sex Drive Dead Posted: 09-13-05 06:38am
That is how my hubby and I are. I am 8
and 1/2 months pregnant and he always
finshes bf me I feel so bad for him cause
he get so mad at him self well what do you
expect I am so dry and well my sex drive
is dead.
Can you just not get as excided as him?
Maybe you all should by a vibrator and see
if that gets you more aroused. ( sorry I
cant spell all that well) lol
hope this will help
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 09-13-05 08:11am
I am very fortunate my husband has great
mind control over his body--but he still
makes it easier and sooner than I do.
And he feels so bad if I dont make it.
But some women are just really hard. He
goes for a very long time, stops and then
goes again--his orgasm is better than the
guy who goes right away--cuz he lets it
build then die down many times before he
actually makes it. So it is much better
for him, and for me if I get there be4 he
does. Even if not we always find a way
to take care of me. There are other ways
and it is okay!!!
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cd998776
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Aug 2005 Posts: 996 Location: Ohio
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Posted: 09-13-05 23:49pm
Masturbating prior to sex tends to help
this a little bit, especially if he is
younger (under 26 or so).
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innocent_me
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Aug 2005 Posts: 15
Posted: 09-15-05 22:31pm
samy444
wrote:
by the way how bad is his premature, I
mean 2 minutes or
what?
yeah 2 mins.... If that.
I have a healthy sexual drive so its not
like I take ages or anything. I just dont
know what to do. I feel like its my fault
or something.
I dunno
thanx for your help guys much
appreciated.
