My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for 3 years now. I was on fertility treatments last year untill the day I got mad at him for breathing in the same room as me. (he has bad allergies...He was really loud) I decided that I did not want to go through that for the holidays. Since then my husband has gotten a new job and our insurance is getting ready to kick in. I am trying to decide weather or not I should start this circus again. On one hand I really want to be a mother and have a baby of our own. On the other I don't want to deal with all of those emotions again, the hurt and disappointment. Then I think if I don't start up I will regret it for the rest of my life. I need some advise please.
Deep down you will know what you should do...A baby is worth anything right? But so many times we forget that we didn't get married just to turn into these baby machines, and it causes problems. I say as long as your husband supports you, try try again. But you will come to the right decision for you, I am in no way trying to tell you what to do. Good luck, follow your heart, and keep us posted!