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Q: 25 Weeks Now But Have a Big Problem :(

asked by: Shazzy on September 11th, 2005

New User

Hi there i'm new and I need your help. My lmp was 27th march and i'm due 31st dec. Hubby and I had been trying for bub #4 anyway so was happy when we found out. But on the 6th or 7th of april I had sex with a man who had a vacestomy over 11mths ago. His wife has not fallen preggies since he had the chop, is there any chance this baby could be his??? I'm worried sick and no way can I tell hubby :( please help me I need someone to talk to. :cry:

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kismit

replied on September 12th, 2005

Experienced User

Wow. I really wish I had some comforting words of advice but unfortunately I don't really know what to say. I do how ever think that you should try really hard to think of the possibilities and try to figure it out. Again I wish I had better advice to help you. Let us know how it goes.

Take care.

Shazzy

replied on September 12th, 2005

New User

Hey thankx alot :) it's just driving me crazy. I keep telling myself that if my peroid started on the 27th and finished on the 1st, the chances of the baby being the other guys is really low, I mean that's only 6-7 days after my period finished and I thought that you are most fertile about 14 before the next period is due. And then the vacestomy thing well, I was kinda hoping with all of the above that the chances are in my favour :(

kismit

replied on September 12th, 2005

Experienced User

Ill keep you in my prayers and wish for the best for you. Think positive and don't let it stress you too much. The stress does neither you nor the baby any good. Again keep us updated.

Rub your tummy and thank god for the blessing of life no matter what. :)

kikagonzalez69

replied on September 14th, 2005

New User

Re: 25 Weeks Now But Have a Big Problem :(

shazzy wrote:

hi there i'm new and I need your help. My lmp was 27th march and i'm due 31st dec. Hubby and I had been trying for bub #4 anyway so was happy when we found out. But on the 6th or 7th of april I had sex with a man who had a vacestomy over 11mths ago. His wife has not fallen preggies since he had the chop, is there any chance this baby could be his??? I'm worried sick and no way can I tell hubby :( please help me I need someone to talk to. :cry:

i know exactly how you feel... It's driving you crazy, huh? Yeah, im in the same situation just like you. My bf and I had been trying for 3 - 4 months and no luck. Finally, I did fall preg. My lmp was feb. 25. I cheated on my bf for the first time in the middle of march and found out I was preg. In april. I am now 7 months and I still wake up worrying. And if it is the other's guys, there's no way I can hide it because he is a different race and the baby will definately show it!

But!!!! I have good news for you.....

I really doubt that it's the other guy's. And i'm not just saying that. Not only is that man incapable of producing sperm, but also, you were not ovulating during the time you has sex w/ him! You said your lmp was the 27th of march, right? Well, usually, if you've had normal periods, a woman ovulates about 14 days after their lmp. So my advice, don't sweat it. Believe me, it will eat you up inside!

Happiness03

replied on September 25th, 2005

Experienced User

Re: 25 Weeks Now But Have a Big Problem :(

shazzy wrote:

by calculation, you would have conceived around march 22nd or so. I think it is your husband's. I just don't see how it could be the other man's.

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