**sumary**: I think my ex is still following me. I'm not sure. She wants to do things (moviex, swimming pool) with me and says her bf will not know about it.. How can I kick her out without hitting her?



**whole story**

i had dated a girl for 1 year, I was kind to her but she cheated on me. I cried but let her go.


Then she asked me out again, I didn't want to but for revenge I finally did.
And - 6 months later I broke up with her so she would understand what it is to feel abandoned.

But I heard from friends that she was seriously into me the 2nd time and tried to make her mistake good. She got depressed and started dating anything male.


Now we are like 2 years after all this. She changed school but we sometimes see each other on street and say hi (i don't live nearby but I go sleeping at my friend's house in weekends), we sometimes chat on msn, and now I have (since june) a gf, and my ex had a "stable" bf since a little time now.


But.. Apparently she (my ex) talks about me very often. At a point that it's irritating her friends. Recently she asked me if I wanted to go to the movies with her and she said "don't worry.. My bf won't know anything about it." she even wanted me to go to a fun-swimming pool.

I tried to calm her down saying "ok but I will talk about it to my gf because I love her and I can't lie to her."

i don't know what to answer.. I thaught about saying "no sorry my gf doesn't want me to go... Too bad." even if my gf thrusts me (a little jaleous but she thrusts me. She's great.)



but anyway what am I supposed to understand from all this? She is still in love with me? After 2 years!? She didn't let it go after all this time?


If it's the case i'd like to tell her that it is over. Forever. Even if I end up signle (and I pray god this will never happen, I love my gf so much) my ex will not have a place in my heart anymore. How can I say that without putting her in depression again?