Has Anyone Had a Baby's Father Walk Out On Them Posted: 11-28-03 20:58pm
Hello everyone,
i just had a argument with my soon to be
baby father. When I told him I was
pregnant he just laughed and was like I
didnt have my priorites straight to have a
child. I told him I was having this child
with or without him. I dont feel like I
should have a abortion kill this child
just because he doesnt wont to take
responsibility. I feel like this child
deserves a chance. I will try my best to
be a good mom when the child comes. I
know it will be hard. I just wanted to
know had anyone else been through this and
how did they survive?
Thanks
chrystal
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A-Lil'Mama*2
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2003 Posts: 89 Location: The Sunshine State
It May Be For the Better.... Posted: 11-28-03 22:24pm
Hi,
I went through the same thing with my
first baby.
During the pregnancy he walked in and out,
and it hurt so bad.
Finally, I realized that my baby was much
more important than that a**hole, and
didn't take him back.
My son is now 2 1/2 and has only seen is
dad once.
Everything worked out for the best,
because now I am married to the best man
ever and we have another child.
If he leaves now with the "thought" of a
baby, he cant handle the reality of a
baby. Think it through for the future.
Good luck.
Marissa
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Yazmine
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Joined: 13 Oct 2003 Posts: 156
Posted: 11-28-03 23:38pm
Props to u for not coosing abortion!! Are
u feeling maybe u'll have trouble raising
the baby urself? Have u considered
adoption? I havent found myself in ur
situation but im starting to feel I
am....The picture perfect relationship I
had with my bf vincent is fading
......Keep us all posted on wat happens
wit u and the babys daddy.....Good
luck!!
Luv
yaz
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PregnaJordan
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Joined: 18 Oct 2003 Posts: 2908
Im a Prime Example!!! Posted: 11-29-03 02:21am
I had my babys daddy tell me to leave
about 3 or 4 weeks ago and I havent talked
to him since, I dont want to and I never
will unless I have to go to court for
custody, but ill win b/c he ahs homicide
charges against him, anyways...Its the
best thing ive done for my baby and
me..... If they dont want to be a daddy
screw them, there missing out on alot...I
dont think of chris as a dad, hes just the
sperm donor...
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honeycoco
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Joined: 11 Nov 2003 Posts: 375 Location: georgia
Posted: 11-29-03 10:19am
Yazmine,
i feel like I can raise this baby by
myself. I dont feel adoption as an option
either. So I will do it by myself plus I
have family who will help me too.
My friend was 15 when she had her
daughter who is 2 now. The daddy stayed
around for about 6 months and then... He
beat my friend with their baby in her
arms, so he went to jail and he's been in
and out every since, but she has nothing
to do with him and their daughter doesn't
even know him which is for the best I
promise. So yes, it may be hard but you
can make it sweetie! You can!
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insurancegirl
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Posted: 11-29-03 11:57am
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Mommy_2_b
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Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 811 Location: Brookfield, N.S.
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Posted: 11-29-03 12:45pm
Mine did! On our wedding day
But now hes back :d
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glitter8370
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Joined: 04 Nov 2003 Posts: 135 Location: bc canada
Dealing With It../ Posted: 11-30-03 18:48pm
Hey hey
hey hun I am 35 weeks pregnant with my
first.. And my babies father is not in
the picture at all.. Not only did he walk
out but he is going as far to say it is
not his.. So now we have to get a dna
test which is making everything alot
harder.. I have freinds who have children
and the childs fathers r not in the
picture.. It makes it harder but you can
get through.. Look at ppl now adays..
How many women raise children without the
father. It can be done:d my mom for
instance raised 2 kids on her own with no
help from mine and my brothers father.
Just remeber it can be done stay strong:d
christina
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 12-01-03 16:38pm
Hey I didnt know all of you didnt have the
dads there. Well maybe a few of you.
Well I know you can do it on your own. It
would probably be easier without the
deadbeat there. My sister is doing it.
The dad maybe has been there for 3 months
out of the 13. And she doesnt need him.
Maybe just child support. Which you
should get if he doesnt want to be in the
picture. Which is another thing. The
less he sees your baby the more he has to
pay! So take him for all his money!
Have an uncle or something for a father
figure. So a man will be there, not just
a mom. Hope loves jose, the only father
figure to her. She gives him kisses all
the time. And she wont do it for anyone
else! The monster! Lol. But you can do
it.
......Keep us all posted on wat happens
wit u and the babys daddy.....Good
luck!!
