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stich

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Joined: 02 Aug 2005
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Really Struggling, Can Someone Please Help!
Posted: 09-04-05 07:57am

I have been struggling with medical issues for many years now and 6 years ago I was in severe pain in my back and after surgery, I was left not being able to walk. Through perseverance, determination and fighting with our medical system and three years of not being able to walk, I went to another province and had surgery and walked out on my own accord a week later. My life continued to improve and I was able to return to work and begin to regain my life I had previously lost.

However, 2 months ago something happened with my neck and I am struggling with severe left sided head and neck pain as well as radiating pain, numbness and tingling down both arms. Nothing is helping and once again my family physician who is new is not doing what she should.

I can't deal with this again. I don't have the energy and or strength to go through this again. All I see is a hugh black hole and I won't go there again. I struggle daily with suicide because between the pain and the lack of support it is very discouraging. I have the support of other medical professionals who are treating me, however they are not able to request the test/procedures required, which makes it that more frustrating.

I am so scared of having to deal with the same issues I had to with my back. I just can't go through that again and I won't. I confided in a friend and I am seeing a psychologist, however I live alone and the nights are the hardest to work through.

I don't know if I have the strength to go though this. Does anyone have any suggestions. I just feel so desperate and I can't handle the pain as it has been constant for 7 straight weeks and pain meds are not helping.

I just don't know what to do.

Stich
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MarieVale

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Joined: 01 Aug 2005
Posts: 56

Posted: 09-14-05 21:26pm

Hey sweetheart, i've never been through anything like that before. Maybe you should try getting a dog or living with a roommate so you're not so lonely. Im always here if you want to talk at night. May god bless you :)
marie
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Grnbear1991

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Joined: 13 Oct 2005
Posts: 7
Location: NH
Might Have An Answer
Posted: 10-15-05 21:40pm

Hey I have something that might answer you question. Please let me commend you on your determination. You had a tough road but you came through ok and thats great.
I too had surgery three years ago nothing to major( first rib reduction) any way I started having the same problems that you are having and after litterly crying and complaining to my doctor for what seemed like forever we finally had a cause.
It seems for alot of people that suffer from some type of trama to there body like surgery they develop this auto immune disease that I have.. Its called fibromyalgia. It isnt something that can be cured as of yet but it is managable. So please mention it to your doctor because if left untreated it can get pretty severe. If they diagnoise you know they can get you into therapy for it or on meds that can help slow down its progress.
If you need any more info you can search the web and see if it matches how you feel or feel free to email me and I would be glad to help.... Take care
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little Debbie

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Joined: 31 Oct 2005
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Location: Georgia

Posted: 11-02-05 23:21pm

I'm so sorry the medical doctors are so insensitive. All they do know how to do is test and rule out what you don't have. I pray you find some relief and answers. I would check into an alternative type of medicine. Being alone makes the pain seem worse. People should reach out to help others in need and you need a friend!
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neckpain

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Joined: 03 Nov 2005
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Location: texas
Me Too!!!
Posted: 11-03-05 10:23am

Stich, I have the same exact symptoms you explained in your other post. Neck pain, left side of head pain, and behind the eye. It's been going for almost a week now. I see you haven't replied lately. Send me an email so we can discuss. I'd like to know how you are doing now. Maybe we can figure out what is going on. I have an appointment to see my nuerologist this afternoon. I said I had migraines also. But I know there is something wrong with my neck. I just feel it is the source. Email me. Or at least post a response. Email is sdeleon 288@yahoo.Com. I don't check it much, but i'll try to check today and next few days. It's nice to see the rest of you that have responded. Very nice. If anyone else knows what happened to stich please let me know. Thx.
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