Joined: 30 Aug 2005 Posts: 615 Location: singapore
Could I Be Infertile? Posted: 09-04-05 03:42am
I was just thinking about this......
Someone help me here..... It might sound
silly but I would really love to know.
I have been trying to conceive for about 5
months, last year before I conceived.
Then after 5/6 weeks of pregnancy, I had a
miscarriage. Since that miscarriage, I
have been trying for a baby now for 9
months. Till now no success.
I am having irregular periods like 40-45
days on an average cycle.
I am obese with a pear shape figure.
I am 27 years old this yr.
I have been having sex with my husband
even b4 marriage for about 7 years. But
he never spit sperm inside. After my
wedding 2 years ago, he started trying for
a baby.
Suddenly, after reading some of the posts
here in,
1) getting pregnant
2) pregnancy
3) infertility
4) other preg related forums,
i am getting this idea, could I be
infertile?
Can an infertile person get pregnant and
miscarry and not have a child?
I feel very confused and emotionally down.
But I would like to know. Has anyone
gone thru this situation or heard of???
After my miscarriage, I asked the doc
about my condition, he said they do not
test for problems with fertility unless u
miscarry for 3 times.
It sounds funny, but thats how it is.....
Pls reply....
Waiting hopefully...... And sadly........
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annarella
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2005 Posts: 117 Location: italy
Posted: 09-04-05 04:02am
Hey don't worry!! I think the infertile
question passes around every single womens
head at some point, expecially those who
are in your situation.
My sister in law (30) had been trying for
3 years for a baby, she was desperate,
both her and her husband (34) had tests to
see if there were problems etc, but there
were none, bout 6 months ago finally she
became pregnant ( they had been moving and
doing up their new house so they weren't
thinking bout conceiving that month) but
at bout 8.5 weeks she lost what the doc
thought were twins!, but the docs
reassured her that at least now she can
relax knowing that she can get pregnant,
he said that the failed pregnancy was a
way of jump starting the whole body into
baby phase if u understand what I mean,
and that she should have realied now that
if u try to much it will never happen, but
as soon as u take your mind of it,
concentrating on other things, it'll
happen.
I can understand it being hard people
telling u to not think about it all the
time, but if theres really nothing
physically wrong with u then its just a
matter of time!!.
From what it sounds like, ur past has been
normal, nothing risky, so I can only tell
u to relax, try a new hobby etc to
concentrate on etc
hope i've helped
xxxxxx good luck xxxxxxxxxxx
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lovablepetsworld
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Aug 2005 Posts: 615 Location: singapore
Thanks Annarella ! Posted: 09-04-05 08:45am
Thanks annarella,
that gives me some assurance. I hope to
get a baby soon! Thanks for sharing.....
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beccaliz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2003 Posts: 119 Location: OC, cali
My Amazing Story Posted: 09-06-05 12:13pm
This is a story of my life, or more
appropriatly on how I can to be. My mom
had endo and my dad had "lazy sperm" they
tried for a few years and decided that god
didn't want them to be parents and they
took a different path. 20 years later...
My dad had a new job opportunity and
didn't know which way to go, stay where he
was or change. He prayed that god would
give him a sign, if he was to change
positions then my mother wouldn't have a
baby, but if he was supposed to stay on
course my mom would get pregnant, and she
did!! She was 40 years old and I know
that seems like a long time to wait but
it's better than nothing right?
