I have small, perfect, round, pert, size a
breasts, and I wouldn't trade them for
anything!!!
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amethyst eyes
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Posted: 05-24-07 11:17am
.mine are a's and ,i have more of a
problem with it than my boyfriend. .he
doesn't m ind the size at all.
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 05-24-07 11:18am
A perspective from the other side....they
just get in the way. After a certian size
they stop making pretty bras altogether.
You can't wear button up shirts (unless
you spent mega bucks for a custom one)All
the rest of the shirts have to be in a
bigger size or else they are too short
from your breasts taking up to much room
and you end up looking like you are
wearing a tent. Not to mention the
neck/back aches you get.
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meblonde01
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Posted: 05-24-07 11:35am
Eiri
wrote:
I have small, perfect,
round, pert, size a breasts, and I
wouldn't trade them for
anything!!!
If you should decide to have a child you
will see a change.. most small boobs go to
flat and nipples only.. Perk goes south..
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 05-24-07 13:04pm
I don't understand why so many people make
a big deal out of breasts. They never
seemed important to me. It's a body part
that is made for feeding your baby. Who
cares what size they are or what they look
like?
If a man ever told me that there was
something wrong with mine, I would kick
him in the crotch and tell him to get the
heck out of my bed, and that would be the
last time that I ever saw his shallow
butt.
I have been a 34DD since I was 14. My
breasts sag, they have stretch marks, and
my bras cost about $35 and up. I can't
imagine why anyone would be envious of
that.
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MsSmiley
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Experience of Both Small & Bigger Boobs Posted: 06-09-07 10:47am
I am 34A & I cannot wear push up bras
b/c I have nothing to put in one, they
don't fit right. As for small breasts
don't sag, think again. After 2 kids
& breastfeeding both what I do have,
sag. If boob sizes aren't a big deal to
men then why are they so fascinated with
bigger boobs - they don't give small
breasts a second look? Anyway, what men
think doesn't really matter it's how you
feel about yourself. I am 36 & have
had many people think I am a guy b/c I
don't have boobs (even lil kids have asked
me to my face if I'm a boy or girl). I
have a small frame & some curves. I
hate buying clothes b/c nothing fits.
Buying swimsuits is the worst b/c nothing
fits & no push up types fit or work
the way they're supposed to. I am a twin
& her self-image is (was) worse than
mine by far & she after many yrs of
wanting a boob job she finally got one Feb
14, 2007. Her confidence is high now
& she loves them & the only regret
was she couldn't have done it sooner. She
didn't go huge just enough to proportion
her body. A blog site she's on for plastic
surgery & fitness.... EVERY person has
told her they want boobs like hers that no
one else's (who's had boob job) compare to
how hers look which they look natural
& very nice. One downfall to all this
that she's NOT comfortable with - she is
now noticing men don't talk to her in the
face but at her boobs which before they
would NEVER even look at her chest.
Hmmmmmmm proves my point about men &
boob size!!!!
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Posted: 06-09-07 12:18pm
Eiri
wrote:
Girls need to learn to be
happy with the boobs they have! I'm a 32a
and I wouldn't trade them for anything.
More than a mouthful is a
waste!
agree with eiri. I am 36a and I too love
my size and so does my fiance. He finds
small boobs more attractive. Plus I have
back problems so the the thought of having
bigger boobs don't cross my mind. When I
was younger i wished sometimes to have
bigger boobs. Then I tried bras that make
your boobs look bigger and you know what
big boobs don't look good on me. I just
look much better with my size.
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Re: Experience of Both Small & Bigger Boobs Posted: 06-09-07 12:37pm
MsSmiley
wrote:
I am 34A & I cannot wear
push up bras b/c I have nothing to put in
one, they don't fit right. As for small
breasts don't sag, think again. After 2
kids & breastfeeding both what I do
have, sag. If boob sizes aren't a big
deal to men then why are they so
fascinated with bigger boobs - they don't
give small breasts a second look? Anyway,
what men think doesn't really matter it's
how you feel about yourself. I am 36
& have had many people think I am a
guy b/c I don't have boobs (even lil kids
have asked me to my face if I'm a boy or
girl). I have a small frame & some
curves. I don't like buying clothes b/c
nothing fits. Buying swimsuits is the
worst b/c nothing fits & no push up
types fit or work the way they're supposed
to. I am a twin & her self-image is
(was) worse than mine by far & she
after many yrs of wanting a boob job she
finally got one Feb 14, 2007. Her
confidence is high now & she loves
them & the only regret was she
couldn't have done it sooner. She didn't
go huge just enough to proportion her
body. A blog site she's on for plastic
surgery & fitness.... EVERY person has
told her they want boobs like hers that no
one else's (who's had boob job) compare to
how hers look which they look natural
& very nice. One downfall to all this
that she's NOT comfortable with - she is
now noticing men don't talk to her in the
face but at her boobs which before they
would NEVER even look at her chest.
Hmmmmmmm proves my point about men &
boob size!!!!
and what good is to wear push up bras? I
have no interest in wearing push up bras,
actually i like bras that don't press me
and me feel uncomfortable. I never have
had a problem finding bras that i like.
And I have never had anyone thinking of me
boy or girl because of lack of boobs. I
would have to have a hair cut of man and
dress like a man to look that way. Buying
swimsuits has never been a problem with A
cup for me. Every woman looks for a
swimsuit that fits her body the best
possible so just because you have bigger
boobs doesn't mean that all swimsuits will
fit. Still you have to find that looks
good and you and there is a gazillion out
there to choose in all shapes and forms.
Ultimatetly if you just feel so unhappy
and you think a boob job will enlighten
your self steem so much then go for that.
A boob job is the only thing that will for
sure make you have big boobs. Personally I
only care for my man to like my boobs. It
doesn't highten my self steem that other
men like my breasts.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-09-07 13:53pm
Of course giving birth makes boobs sag,
that happens to nearly every woman. But
what if I don't want to give birth?
Anyway, I don't normally have too much of
a problem finding proper bras, and as I
said, I am also a 32/34 a cup. Bathing
suits, I go for the racing kind, as I goof
off a lot in the water and skimpy suits
fall right off of anybody when doing more
than just laying around.
I think people should be secure with their
bodies unless they have an actual
deformity. Small breasts are not a
deformity, sorry to inform you.
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Hyacinth
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Small Boob Size As a Social Deformity Posted: 06-09-07 15:43pm
Eri, you say, "sorry to inform you that
small boob size is not a deformity," or
more or less. Sadly, when your boyfriends
are criticizing you and falling over
themselves when they see big boobs
flapping and even leaving you for a feel
of that stuff, yes it is a social
deformity, not a true deformity. Society,
advertising and our culture specifically
has somehow sadly become focused on big
boobs, cleavage and jiggle and all that
goes with it. Of course, this banal and
superficial obsession is just that: banal
and superficial. We are--men who want
them and women who are victims of their
men--products of our environment. This
mentality has even crept into cultures
where small women and small breasts are
the norm. Now even petite little Asian
woman are getting boob jobs. It's so sad.
All one can do is keep looking for a
real Christian man and ignore all the sad
messages in the media.
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Re: Small Boob Size As a Social Deformity Posted: 06-09-07 16:04pm
Hyacinth
wrote:
Eri, you say, "sorry to
inform you that small boob size is not a
deformity," or more or less. Sadly, when
your boyfriends are criticizing you and
falling over themselves when they see big
boobs flapping and even leaving you for a
feel of that stuff, yes it is a social
deformity, not a true
deformity.
You're right, there is a social deformity.
There is a social deformity in your
boyfriend's head. He needs it removed.
No woman should be forced to put her life
at risk and have fake materials shoved
into her tenderest, sexiest parts just to
please som distorted social deformity.
No woman should have to risk loosing all
sensitivity - and pleasure - from her
breasts, just because some fool watches
too much porn and thinks all women should
have giant plastic jugs.
No woman should have to go through months
of physical pain just to make her body
something it was never meant to be. It's
inhumane, just like docking a dog's tail
or ears.
Quote:
tr>
Society,
advertising and our culture specifically
has somehow sadly become focused on big
boobs, cleavage and jiggle and all that
goes with it.
Yet for some reason, I don't feel the way
you do... It's about self esteem. If you
don't love yourself, then no one will.
Sticking plastic in your chest isn't going
to make you more of a woman. In fact, if
you lose all sensitivity to touch in your
nipples and the flesh of your breast, I'd
honestly say you are less of a
woman.
Quote:
tr>
Of course, this
banal and superficial obsession is just
that: banal and superficial. We are--men
who want them and women who are victims of
their men--products of our environment.
We are - humans that is - capable of
overcoming that. Succumbing to it is weak,
and just as bad as being the one
supporting it.
Many women who get breast augmentations
are doing nothing except supporting the
social deformity that large plastic
breasts are prettier than normal ones.
Quote:
tr>
This mentality
has even crept into cultures where small
women and small breasts are the norm. Now
even petite little Asian woman are getting
boob jobs. It's so sad. All one can do
is keep looking for a real Christian man
and ignore all the sad messages in the
media.
I'm not christian. My fiancee is not
christian. I know you probably didn't mean
anything by your comment, but please
remember that although christianity is the
dominant religion, it's not the only one,
and there are many men who call themselves
christian who want every woman on the
planet to have huge honkers. Religion's
got nothing to do with it.
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Posted: 06-10-07 22:00pm
I just wanted to add that if you are ultra
flat chested (like i was as I used to be
ultra skinny too) you can try doing weight
bearing excercise on your chest means like
doing chest press excersices (heavy
weight) to develop the chest muscles. I
did a lot of that and it made my chest and
breast look bigger as the muscles behind
the breast were growing. Not that i
increased a cup size with it but it did
major improvement. I also think i did it
in a good time as I was in high school so
my body was still developing into adult.
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Llewellyn
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Re: Small Boob Size As a Social Deformity Posted: 06-10-07 23:12pm
Hyacinth
wrote:
Eri, you say, "sorry to
inform you that small boob size is not a
deformity," or more or less. Sadly, when
your boyfriends are criticizing you and
falling over themselves when they see big
boobs flapping and even leaving you for a
feel of that stuff, yes it is a social
deformity, not a true deformity....All one
can do is keep looking for a real
Christian man and ignore all the sad
messages in the
media.
I agree with eiri here. If your boyfriend
criticizes you for having small breasts,
then something is wrong with him, not you
or your breasts. Frankly, I would slap
the guy, call him a pig, and tell him to
never call me again if a man said
something like that to me.
My partner and I are not Christian either.
You can find a good man who is not
Christian, just like you can find a bad
man who is.
You're right that it's got a lot to do
with society. Eighty years ago in
America, everyone wanted to be flat
chested and have a boyish figure. So if
we all just accept what we are, don't let
the media or anyone else get us down, and
know that body preferences change with
cultures and times, we can be a lot
healthier and happier.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-10-07 23:19pm
Yeah! The roarin' 20's sure did have the
opposite opinion of beauty as we have now.
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sillyakchick
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Re: Small Boob Size As a Social Deformity Posted: 06-11-07 10:33am
Hyacinth
wrote:
All one can do is keep
looking for a real Christian man and
ignore all the sad messages in the
media.
Umm, my husband is a taoist, and he likes
me for the flat chested woman I am.
Christianity doesn't have anything to do
with it.
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Hyacinth
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Apology Offered Posted: 06-11-07 10:46am
I apologize for the exclusion of good
people everywhere, of every faith. Mea
Culpa! (I am guilty). I am not that
closed minded, believe me. Just using the
word "christian" to imply "good values."
So very sorry for offending anyone.
Thanks for the comments.
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nightangel73
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Re: Apology Offered Posted: 06-11-07 18:19pm
Hyacinth
wrote:
I apologize for the
exclusion of good people everywhere, of
every faith. Mea Culpa! (I am guilty). I
am not that closed minded, believe me.
Just using the word "christian" to imply
"good values." So very sorry for
offending anyone. Thanks for the
comments.
you don't need to apologize. It is true
that christian men are the best ones out
there.
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Llewellyn
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Re: Apology Offered Posted: 06-11-07 18:22pm
nightangel73
wrote:
It is true that christian
men are the best ones out
there.
Whoa, that's quite an offensive and
prejudiced claim to make. Don't get so
caught up in labels that you can't see
people for what they really are. There
are people who are in prison right now for
rape, homicide, and child molestation who
claim to be Christians, you know.
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nikoleM
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Posted: 06-11-07 18:25pm
yea well i have small breasts i do wish
they were a B size!! i'm a lil self
contiouse about my body i'm 5'1 and have
these little boobs sometimes i feel like
im stuck in a 12 year old body and really
i'm 18...!!!
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-11-07 19:57pm
nikoleM
wrote:
yea well i have small
breasts i do wish they were a B size!! i'm
a lil self contiouse about my body i'm 5'1
and have these little boobs sometimes i
feel like im stuck in a 12 year old body
and really i'm
18...!!!
I'm taller than you and I don't have big
breasts either.
Be happy with what nature gave you!
Also, no. Christian men are not the best
(I think it's silly to classify men by
their religion anyway). Christian men made
hitler, the KKK, and caused female
suppression in the usa. But let's not
debate this; as no christian like
nightangel is going to agree with these
facts. (note I didn't say "all
christians". Just ones like nightangel).