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Tylanas

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Posted: 05-24-07 11:06am

I have small, perfect, round, pert, size a breasts, and I wouldn't trade them for anything!!!
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Posted: 05-24-07 11:17am

.mine are a's and ,i have more of a problem with it than my boyfriend. .he doesn't m ind the size at all.
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Posted: 05-24-07 11:18am

A perspective from the other side....they just get in the way. After a certian size they stop making pretty bras altogether. You can't wear button up shirts (unless you spent mega bucks for a custom one)All the rest of the shirts have to be in a bigger size or else they are too short from your breasts taking up to much room and you end up looking like you are wearing a tent. Not to mention the neck/back aches you get.
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Posted: 05-24-07 11:35am

Eiri wrote:
I have small, perfect, round, pert, size a breasts, and I wouldn't trade them for anything!!!


If you should decide to have a child you will see a change.. most small boobs go to flat and nipples only.. Perk goes south..
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Posted: 05-24-07 13:04pm

I don't understand why so many people make a big deal out of breasts. They never seemed important to me. It's a body part that is made for feeding your baby. Who cares what size they are or what they look like?

If a man ever told me that there was something wrong with mine, I would kick him in the crotch and tell him to get the heck out of my bed, and that would be the last time that I ever saw his shallow butt.

I have been a 34DD since I was 14. My breasts sag, they have stretch marks, and my bras cost about $35 and up. I can't imagine why anyone would be envious of that.
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Experience of Both Small & Bigger Boobs
Posted: 06-09-07 10:47am

I am 34A & I cannot wear push up bras b/c I have nothing to put in one, they don't fit right. As for small breasts don't sag, think again. After 2 kids & breastfeeding both what I do have, sag. If boob sizes aren't a big deal to men then why are they so fascinated with bigger boobs - they don't give small breasts a second look? Anyway, what men think doesn't really matter it's how you feel about yourself. I am 36 & have had many people think I am a guy b/c I don't have boobs (even lil kids have asked me to my face if I'm a boy or girl). I have a small frame & some curves. I hate buying clothes b/c nothing fits. Buying swimsuits is the worst b/c nothing fits & no push up types fit or work the way they're supposed to. I am a twin & her self-image is (was) worse than mine by far & she after many yrs of wanting a boob job she finally got one Feb 14, 2007. Her confidence is high now & she loves them & the only regret was she couldn't have done it sooner. She didn't go huge just enough to proportion her body. A blog site she's on for plastic surgery & fitness.... EVERY person has told her they want boobs like hers that no one else's (who's had boob job) compare to how hers look which they look natural & very nice. One downfall to all this that she's NOT comfortable with - she is now noticing men don't talk to her in the face but at her boobs which before they would NEVER even look at her chest. Hmmmmmmm proves my point about men & boob size!!!!
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Posted: 06-09-07 12:18pm

Eiri wrote:
Girls need to learn to be happy with the boobs they have! I'm a 32a and I wouldn't trade them for anything. More than a mouthful is a waste!


agree with eiri. I am 36a and I too love my size and so does my fiance. He finds small boobs more attractive. Plus I have back problems so the the thought of having bigger boobs don't cross my mind. When I was younger i wished sometimes to have bigger boobs. Then I tried bras that make your boobs look bigger and you know what big boobs don't look good on me. I just look much better with my size.
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Re: Experience of Both Small & Bigger Boobs
Posted: 06-09-07 12:37pm

MsSmiley wrote:
I am 34A & I cannot wear push up bras b/c I have nothing to put in one, they don't fit right. As for small breasts don't sag, think again. After 2 kids & breastfeeding both what I do have, sag. If boob sizes aren't a big deal to men then why are they so fascinated with bigger boobs - they don't give small breasts a second look? Anyway, what men think doesn't really matter it's how you feel about yourself. I am 36 & have had many people think I am a guy b/c I don't have boobs (even lil kids have asked me to my face if I'm a boy or girl). I have a small frame & some curves. I don't like buying clothes b/c nothing fits. Buying swimsuits is the worst b/c nothing fits & no push up types fit or work the way they're supposed to. I am a twin & her self-image is (was) worse than mine by far & she after many yrs of wanting a boob job she finally got one Feb 14, 2007. Her confidence is high now & she loves them & the only regret was she couldn't have done it sooner. She didn't go huge just enough to proportion her body. A blog site she's on for plastic surgery & fitness.... EVERY person has told her they want boobs like hers that no one else's (who's had boob job) compare to how hers look which they look natural & very nice. One downfall to all this that she's NOT comfortable with - she is now noticing men don't talk to her in the face but at her boobs which before they would NEVER even look at her chest. Hmmmmmmm proves my point about men & boob size!!!!


and what good is to wear push up bras? I have no interest in wearing push up bras, actually i like bras that don't press me and me feel uncomfortable. I never have had a problem finding bras that i like. And I have never had anyone thinking of me boy or girl because of lack of boobs. I would have to have a hair cut of man and dress like a man to look that way. Buying swimsuits has never been a problem with A cup for me. Every woman looks for a swimsuit that fits her body the best possible so just because you have bigger boobs doesn't mean that all swimsuits will fit. Still you have to find that looks good and you and there is a gazillion out there to choose in all shapes and forms.

Ultimatetly if you just feel so unhappy and you think a boob job will enlighten your self steem so much then go for that. A boob job is the only thing that will for sure make you have big boobs. Personally I only care for my man to like my boobs. It doesn't highten my self steem that other men like my breasts.
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Posted: 06-09-07 13:53pm

Of course giving birth makes boobs sag, that happens to nearly every woman. But what if I don't want to give birth?

Anyway, I don't normally have too much of a problem finding proper bras, and as I said, I am also a 32/34 a cup. Bathing suits, I go for the racing kind, as I goof off a lot in the water and skimpy suits fall right off of anybody when doing more than just laying around.

I think people should be secure with their bodies unless they have an actual deformity. Small breasts are not a deformity, sorry to inform you.
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Small Boob Size As a Social Deformity
Posted: 06-09-07 15:43pm

Eri, you say, "sorry to inform you that small boob size is not a deformity," or more or less. Sadly, when your boyfriends are criticizing you and falling over themselves when they see big boobs flapping and even leaving you for a feel of that stuff, yes it is a social deformity, not a true deformity. Society, advertising and our culture specifically has somehow sadly become focused on big boobs, cleavage and jiggle and all that goes with it. Of course, this banal and superficial obsession is just that: banal and superficial. We are--men who want them and women who are victims of their men--products of our environment. This mentality has even crept into cultures where small women and small breasts are the norm. Now even petite little Asian woman are getting boob jobs. It's so sad. All one can do is keep looking for a real Christian man and ignore all the sad messages in the media.
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Re: Small Boob Size As a Social Deformity
Posted: 06-09-07 16:04pm

Hyacinth wrote:
Eri, you say, "sorry to inform you that small boob size is not a deformity," or more or less. Sadly, when your boyfriends are criticizing you and falling over themselves when they see big boobs flapping and even leaving you for a feel of that stuff, yes it is a social deformity, not a true deformity.


You're right, there is a social deformity. There is a social deformity in your boyfriend's head. He needs it removed.

No woman should be forced to put her life at risk and have fake materials shoved into her tenderest, sexiest parts just to please som distorted social deformity.

No woman should have to risk loosing all sensitivity - and pleasure - from her breasts, just because some fool watches too much porn and thinks all women should have giant plastic jugs.

No woman should have to go through months of physical pain just to make her body something it was never meant to be. It's inhumane, just like docking a dog's tail or ears.

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Society, advertising and our culture specifically has somehow sadly become focused on big boobs, cleavage and jiggle and all that goes with it.


Yet for some reason, I don't feel the way you do... It's about self esteem. If you don't love yourself, then no one will. Sticking plastic in your chest isn't going to make you more of a woman. In fact, if you lose all sensitivity to touch in your nipples and the flesh of your breast, I'd honestly say you are less of a woman.

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Of course, this banal and superficial obsession is just that: banal and superficial. We are--men who want them and women who are victims of their men--products of our environment.


We are - humans that is - capable of overcoming that. Succumbing to it is weak, and just as bad as being the one supporting it.

Many women who get breast augmentations are doing nothing except supporting the social deformity that large plastic breasts are prettier than normal ones.

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This mentality has even crept into cultures where small women and small breasts are the norm. Now even petite little Asian woman are getting boob jobs. It's so sad. All one can do is keep looking for a real Christian man and ignore all the sad messages in the media.


I'm not christian. My fiancee is not christian. I know you probably didn't mean anything by your comment, but please remember that although christianity is the dominant religion, it's not the only one, and there are many men who call themselves christian who want every woman on the planet to have huge honkers. Religion's got nothing to do with it.
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Posted: 06-10-07 22:00pm

I just wanted to add that if you are ultra flat chested (like i was as I used to be ultra skinny too) you can try doing weight bearing excercise on your chest means like doing chest press excersices (heavy weight) to develop the chest muscles. I did a lot of that and it made my chest and breast look bigger as the muscles behind the breast were growing. Not that i increased a cup size with it but it did major improvement. I also think i did it in a good time as I was in high school so my body was still developing into adult.
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Re: Small Boob Size As a Social Deformity
Posted: 06-10-07 23:12pm

Hyacinth wrote:
Eri, you say, "sorry to inform you that small boob size is not a deformity," or more or less. Sadly, when your boyfriends are criticizing you and falling over themselves when they see big boobs flapping and even leaving you for a feel of that stuff, yes it is a social deformity, not a true deformity....All one can do is keep looking for a real Christian man and ignore all the sad messages in the media.


I agree with eiri here. If your boyfriend criticizes you for having small breasts, then something is wrong with him, not you or your breasts. Frankly, I would slap the guy, call him a pig, and tell him to never call me again if a man said something like that to me.

My partner and I are not Christian either. You can find a good man who is not Christian, just like you can find a bad man who is.

You're right that it's got a lot to do with society. Eighty years ago in America, everyone wanted to be flat chested and have a boyish figure. So if we all just accept what we are, don't let the media or anyone else get us down, and know that body preferences change with cultures and times, we can be a lot healthier and happier.
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Posted: 06-10-07 23:19pm

Yeah! The roarin' 20's sure did have the opposite opinion of beauty as we have now.
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Re: Small Boob Size As a Social Deformity
Posted: 06-11-07 10:33am

Hyacinth wrote:
All one can do is keep looking for a real Christian man and ignore all the sad messages in the media.


Umm, my husband is a taoist, and he likes me for the flat chested woman I am. Christianity doesn't have anything to do with it.
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Hyacinth

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Posted: 06-11-07 10:46am

I apologize for the exclusion of good people everywhere, of every faith. Mea Culpa! (I am guilty). I am not that closed minded, believe me. Just using the word "christian" to imply "good values." So very sorry for offending anyone. Thanks for the comments.
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Re: Apology Offered
Posted: 06-11-07 18:19pm

Hyacinth wrote:
I apologize for the exclusion of good people everywhere, of every faith. Mea Culpa! (I am guilty). I am not that closed minded, believe me. Just using the word "christian" to imply "good values." So very sorry for offending anyone. Thanks for the comments.


you don't need to apologize. It is true that christian men are the best ones out there.
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Llewellyn

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Re: Apology Offered
Posted: 06-11-07 18:22pm

nightangel73 wrote:
It is true that christian men are the best ones out there.


Whoa, that's quite an offensive and prejudiced claim to make. Don't get so caught up in labels that you can't see people for what they really are. There are people who are in prison right now for rape, homicide, and child molestation who claim to be Christians, you know.
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Posted: 06-11-07 18:25pm

yea well i have small breasts i do wish they were a B size!! i'm a lil self contiouse about my body i'm 5'1 and have these little boobs sometimes i feel like im stuck in a 12 year old body and really i'm 18...!!!
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Posted: 06-11-07 19:57pm

nikoleM wrote:
yea well i have small breasts i do wish they were a B size!! i'm a lil self contiouse about my body i'm 5'1 and have these little boobs sometimes i feel like im stuck in a 12 year old body and really i'm 18...!!!


I'm taller than you and I don't have big breasts either.

Be happy with what nature gave you!

Also, no. Christian men are not the best (I think it's silly to classify men by their religion anyway). Christian men made hitler, the KKK, and caused female suppression in the usa. But let's not debate this; as no christian like nightangel is going to agree with these facts. (note I didn't say "all christians". Just ones like nightangel).
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