Of course its not easy. Its not even easy to most parents who aren't teenagers. Alot of moms do drop out of school to raise their babies which of course I do not reccomend.. I'm staying in school. In my town I have a student mom's program. We do our schooling and very near our school is a daycare for our babies. Its not as strict as regular school so that if our babies need us or are sick we can miss the needed days and not fall far behind. I haven't had my baby yet but I am going to the school and its really great because if I feel sick in the morning (which I sometimes do) then I do not have to go in if I really do not want to and they are alot more undertanding about it.

first off, it isn't easy for anyone to raise a baby. And being a teenager just makes it all the more difficult. Although some of the teen mothers that I have seen and talked to seem like better parents than those who are in their twenties and thirties. Some teens just stop going to school altogether, some take some time off and go back later, and some have someone take care of the baby while they are at school. As for what the people who live around you and what they would say, depends on who they are. Some people are extremely happy and proud of you for having a baby and for being a teen mother and sticking to the responsibilities. But there are always a few who love to put you down, make fun of you, harrass you. Ya know the really nasty people. Hope that answers your questions. Much love melissa

Let me tell you my sister in law has 4 kids and she is 21 just like insurance girl and her eldest is only 3 years old how about that!!! She just had the youngest about 1 month ago so they run from 3-2-1-0 her and my brother have a hard time see they drink a gallon of milk a day imagine the money they spend on diapers and stuff thats hard its hard for me and I have 1 and its a big package insurance girl who watches your kids?

Hello thanks for replyin to my message...Ive also put up a thing in pregnancy called help..Could I be pregnant? If u would like to read it...But im not sure I might be pregnant but then if I am im not sure...Im only 13 and in the 8th grade...I just became sexually active this year...Not really this yr...But this is the first b/f that I have been sexually active wit but we have been together for like 4 months soo I guess u can say that is good and we both love each other...But ya if I was pregnant I would say it would be hard but as long as I had my familys support and some friends...I know my best friend would be there cause she has told me and she is sexually active herself so ya...She knows wat I would be goin through I guess u would say...But I would wanna finish highschool because wats the point of the babys life if I didnt have a highschool diploma I would be workin at a fast food resturant or maybe not even that I wouldnt make enough money for my baby and me and my b/f or watever...And if I was pregnant my bf would be there and hes gonna graduate this yr so he will be gettin a job and bla bla n he said that he would watch the baby if he could while I went to school or one of our family member would have to watch them...So I think I will have it ok as for there if I do ever become pregnant...Well who ever is readin this thanks for takin time out of ur day to read it cause sometimes its nice to have someone there to talk about stuff wit that u dont wanna talk about to some other ppl...Well im gonna go now...Thanks alot

tiffany

Tiffany,
we are all here for yuo sweetie! Keep us posted!