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Q: Sex With My Girlfriend....help!
asked by: ybuggey08 on August 31st, 2005
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Ok, me and my girlfriend have been dating for about two months....And have been having sex for about a month and a half. I was a virgin when before this, and she did not have much more experience than me. The thing is that when we do it, she says it doesn't feel good. Am I doing somethin wrong or what? I don't know how you can mess it up but apparently I am doing somethin wrong so please help!
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innocent_me
replied on September 1st, 2005
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When a girl hasnt had sex before or is inexperienced sexually they can sometimes be "tight" which may make sex painful or uncomfortable for them. I suggest lots and lots of foreplay- kissing, touching, stoking etc might benefit her as the wetter she is the better. It wont be painful then and if she relaxes and just enjoys the moment she myt learn to like it. Just take it slow. Dont worry its probably not you.
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ybuggey08
replied on September 1st, 2005
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Thanks
Alright cool, thanks for your help.
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cinderella
replied on September 6th, 2005
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Re: Sex With My Girlfriend....help!
ybuggey08 wrote:
ok, me and my girlfriend have been dating for about two months....And have been having sex for about a month and a half. I was a virgin when before this, and she did not have much more experience than me. The thing is that when we do it, she says it doesn't feel good. Am I doing somethin wrong or what? I don't know how you can mess it up but apparently I am doing somethin wrong so please help!
well...I think you need to warm-up don't just jump into the part of penetrating....First u gotta play like the other user kissing & touching and stuff like that..... Have her giving u head and stuff like or u can try the position that really turns me on the 69 ( have u heard about it?)
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JohnnyB25
replied on September 6th, 2005
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I agree with the above. Also you can try putting some lube to ease the penetration
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cd998776
replied on September 7th, 2005
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johnnyb25 wrote:
i agree with the above. Also you can try putting some lube to ease the penetration

agreed.
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caring_mum
replied on September 13th, 2005
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Specially 4 Buggey
Hi young man,
i was once a lil girl like her too you know!..The best way to make her feel good is to put her mind at ease when u guys are getting intimate...Sweet talk her well well and kiss her ear a lot (lick too if u can) believe me she start to melt out like the snowgirl in the summer..Here's a tool that would definitely aid u in trying different things with her....
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fatfamily02
replied on September 13th, 2005
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You Dont Ever Tell a Virgin That Its No Good
That is terrible, im sorry hon. But these others have given you some suggestions to help make it better for her, but you said she is experiencd right? I dont know but I just know it is rude to tell a virgin "it dont feel good" it could scar you for life. But just remember we all started out a virgin. I was humiliated by my first encounter too---he said "are you just going to ly still" like I even knew what to do. He was the experienced one he could have helped me by suggesting not making me feel "no good"

it will work out though, and you are getting experience---right??
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