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nietu2
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How to Start Having Annal Sex With You Husband
Posted: 08-31-05 22:15pm
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How do I get myself prepared for a penis
to be put in my ass! My husband is very
interested in annal sex, but I fear that
it will hurt, and I wont like it. :d
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MOMMA4LIFE
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It Hurts Like Hell!!!
Posted: 08-31-05 22:25pm
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So please don't do it. We tried it once
and only once. It was kind of like a
searing pain. I didn't get over it when
he pulled out - it still hurt for an hour.
I am a normal woman with an normal but.
I'd like it to stay that way. Good luck
and i'm so sorry if i'm too late to warn
you!
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-31-05 22:28pm
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Well, you can start by feeling what your
body feels like when you're in a nice
relaxing bath. Knowing what just your own
finger feels like can help prepare you, so
you'll know kind of what it feels like..
It kinda feels like you have to poo, right
at first, but that's just because you're
opening that ring of muscles at the
surface called the sphincter. Once it's
open that wierd uncomfortable feeling goes
away.
The first time my bf and I had anal sex,
we didn't use any lube except natural body
fluids (mine! I'm... Ah... Naturally
lubed up nearly all the time), and he also
didn't do any pre-stretching, which is
what's advised by all my gay friends!
If you'd like to do that, which can help
ease pain, then I believe it's one finger,
two fingers, three fingers. The size of
three fingers is about the width of most
men's penises. The length of his wang
doesn't matter when it comes to anal :)
there's nothing to jam into, not like the
cervix!
The first time my bf got inside of me, it
hurt incredibly, and I had to push away
from him, and pause for a few moments. He
went inside of me again and it didn't hurt
at all; plus, it feels really good!
Being relaxed is the most important part!
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nietu2
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Thanks Guys For All of Your Mature Imputs About Annal Sex
Posted: 08-31-05 23:02pm
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:) I feel much better about the choice I
made with my husband about annal sex. We
both agreed since there is difficult
things that can happen to person as a
female we decided to keep our sex life the
same, fun and simple. He understands all
the effects it can have on the body. Oh
yeah we checked out that web site
sextalkwithsue.Com thanks guys :lol:
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MOMMA4LIFE
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Good For You!
Posted: 09-01-05 18:57pm
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You are very right about the effects it
can have on the body. There is a very
high occurance of fissures (tears in the
skin on the opening of the anus) that can
range from mild to severe. Some times
even needing surgery. It also cause the
elastisity to give way, thus letting
things "leak out" that aren't supposed to.
My husband and I have a great sex life -
I think the 2 holes I let him put his
penis into are enough! (and he lucky I
even put that thing in my mouth. :) j/k
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nietu2
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to Mama 4 Life
Posted: 09-01-05 23:19pm
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:) u sure are right, and my husband is
addicted to that, and he loves eating my
cat! Every time I turn around, he be
wanting me to penis up! Im like damn baby
let me breath!
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kkkaaayyyy
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Posted: 09-08-05 13:00pm
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If you ever do decide to try it, the main
key is to relax. If your tense your
intire body will be. :) just relax!!
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Maiden
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Annal Sex
Posted: 11-16-07 20:25pm
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Never try but I feel only your cryt s the
only one which at the end receives
PLEASURE AND pleasure...and
fantacies....all type...and his
fantasies...
If you looking for pleasure why to go to
the unpleasure door...it could be amazing
with his finger without distroying your
buttocks, ...and let him only ..i call
know the door....meet the an stranger
visitor at the entrance door is better
rather than to invite they in.....well for
U OF COURSE! !!!!!
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Posted: 11-16-07 22:37pm
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Maiden, it is indeed clear you have never
had anal sex. It can be VERY pleasurable
for a female to have anal sex; I know this
from experience. Please do not advise
people about something you yourself have
never tried, especially when what you say
is not true.
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Maiden
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Posted: 12-19-07 10:17am
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| Eiri
wrote: | | Maiden, it is indeed clear
you have never had anal sex. It can be
VERY pleasurable for a female to have anal
sex; I know this from experience. Please
do not advise people about something you
yourself have never tried, especially when
what you say is not
true. |
Yes true,...I think IKNOW BETTER WHAT MEN
LIKE!, AND ITS A more healthy and best
looking bum...
THEY WILL LOOK AT GOOD LOOKING BUTTOCKS
AND then after TRYING TO DESTROY IT ......
THE BEAUTY IS TO BE DESTROY...... DON'T
THEY DO WITH NATURE?.......FOR
UNNATURE....
So if I do try it and it hurts then plus
my gorgeous buttock fall down.....who is
out there to complain... 
We all know men r always looking for
something new to try!!.....So better to
think Ahead always and what is good for U
indeed too!!! 
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Tylanas
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Posted: 12-19-07 16:37pm
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My butt is not destroyed from anal sex.
You and I are both women, neither of us
"knows better" what men want.
I really can't quite understand all of
your post... It's a little garbled.
IF it hurts, then clearly don't do it. I
don't advise ANYONE to do ANYTHING that
hurts them. Every kind of sex has the
potential to be painful, even vaginal sex
- the "most natural" kind. However, NO
form of sex SHOULD be painful, not even
vaginal or anal. If any form of sex hurts,
stop and asses what the problem may be.
Often, the male is going too fast, the
female is frightened and tense, or there
isn't enough lube.
Having anal sex will not make your butt
"fall down". Where on earth did you hear
that?! Hehehe. That's the silliest thing
I've ever head  .
Yes, men AND WOMEN are always looking for
something new to try. In fact, the first
time I had anal it was MY idea as the
female partner.
It is very important to think ahead and
prepare for things like anal sex by buying
plenty of water-based lubricants, condoms,
and towels. Set aside a long space of
time. If you really want to be prepared,
then buy some anal-plugs and insert them,
starting at small ones and working your
way up to one the size of your partner's
penis.
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Ncharge
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Posted: 12-19-07 17:22pm
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My suggestion is have a few drinks and
make sure he uses lube.
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Posted: 12-19-07 17:57pm
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I am not sure if having alcohol in your
system will be such a good idea. Yes it
can help you relax but it could have the
opposite affect. What if you are too
buzzed out to realize what your doing?
Maybe he will get too rough and hurt you.
Then the next morning you could be in
pain. This has happened to me so I would
not suggest it based on my own experience,
but its up to you.
You can make your body relax without the
aid of alcohol or any other mind altering
substance
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Posted: 12-19-07 18:16pm
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Yes, I would never suggest becoming
impaired before ANY activity involving
first-time contact with delicate body
structures like the anus OR vagina.
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Posted: 12-22-07 00:03am
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It's nice from time to time....not
something DH and I do on a regular basis
though. If you'r not a naturally wet
person then deffinately lube it up. Go
slow, relax, and who knows...maybe you'll
love it!
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primeaque86
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Hello Im Interested
Posted: 01-13-08 02:24am
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im
always experiencing that kind of activity,
im gay. a college student..... i am just
afraid if there would be a bad effect on
this? can you help me.... yes its hurting
but id like it..... maybe thats my
need.... or somewhat.....
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Tylanas
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Posted: 01-13-08 10:44am
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Anal sex is NOT HARMFUL. Just don't do it
every single day, multiple times a day. It
is true that the anus isn't quite as
resilient as a vagina; thus, too much
stretching can cause permanent enlargement
and an inability to "hold it in", aka
incontinence. This doesn't happen very
often however and is only caused by
excessive anal sex and overly-large anal
plugs and toys.
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Posted: 01-14-08 09:44am
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ive never tried, and i dont think i want
to...but im curious to see whether how
much better it is than vaginal sex?
is the orgasm reached from the same
point?
is the orgasm higher? etc?
i think any of my boyfriend id ever been
with, if i had suggested that they would
freak! even my gay friend said if i did it
he would say guys would see me different!
whereas, one of my girlfriends loves it..
she talks about it openly.. and some guys
are disgusted at her
mmm maybe its my area?? lol
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Tylanas
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Posted: 01-14-08 10:54am
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It's not "better" in my opinion; but it is
not worse. It is just different.
If you orgasm from your vagina normally
then no, you will not vaginally orgasm
from anal sex - how could you? However, if
you orgasm from clitoral stimulation, then
yes you can still orgasm in the same way.
My orgasm wasn't bigger or better, it just
felt different.
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Posted: 01-14-08 10:57am
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I wouldnt say anal sex is better. Nothing
beats just plain ol' vaginal sex if you
ask me. But for me the orgasm does feel
different. I cannot reach orgasm through
anal sex WITHOUT a vibrator. I just cant.
There are tons of nerve endings in your
anus, but for me it doesnt do the job. So
I use a toy. The orgasm is great beacause
to me I feel completley filled and
thoroughly F$#%$D. Sorry for the language
but thats what happens.
Anal sex is great and lots of fun for me
and my hubby. It doesnt matter where you
go cause there will be people who look
down on anal sex and there are others that
are open and enjoy it too. JUst do what
you like because you want to and what
other people say and think dont matter
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