I am actually a child of a mother who had the same problem... I don't want to get you worried but she had a very hard time conceiving me. I was wondering if you have endometriosis b/c that can make you very irregular. I'm sure you've at least yeard of this, but i'd suggest charting... Even if it doesn't help you conceive it gives you and focus for your obsessive engergis. Also, don't drink, if you're even a little low on the fertility scale drinking can make it much worse.