300-500 calories a day, yeah, been there done that. Okay, lost my period, hospitilized, almost didn't get to go back to school, couldn't play sports, lost friends, constant fights with family. Sound enjoyable?
Get over yourselves. No one is going to take care of problems for you. You have phones. Call the doctor and make an appointment. That's all it takes. They'll decide what kind of help you need from there.
FYI, I eat 2000-24000 calories a day, I'm 5'4" and I'm a 17-year-old girl. I don't gain weight. Most people would say I am thin and athletic. I also menstruate regularly, and have learned to let go of numbers (lbs, calories, fat, etc.) and actually enjoy food - what I want, when I want it.
Once again, it's up to you to change. I wasted away, assuming someone else would eventually save me, and guess what? They didn't. Not my parents or friends or anyone. Why? Because, as crazy as it sounds, they are intimidated by you. They are scared of your reaction and don't realize how serious the issue is.