Can Only Masturbate Once a Week? Posted: 08-30-05 19:42pm
I have low sensation in my penis 95% of
the time. I masturbate about once a
week because that's how long it seems to
take for me to recharge.
I have low sensation in my penis so it is
extremely hard for my girlfriend to please
me. All this is very frustrating, I
have some ideas why this is and i'm going
to see a doctor, but I would like to know
if anyone else has had these experiences
before?
Because of the low sensation in my penis
during sex I have erectile dysfunction.
Becuase she might as well be massaging my
finger it seems like! So I lose my
erection and am like eh whatever.
Although rare times if I don't masturbate
or anything for at least a week I will
have sensation down there. It's all
ridiculously frustrating. And after I do
masturbate, my balls are usually sore the
entire next day.
Again anyone that has dealt with this i'd
love to hear how it went and what you did
for it if anything.
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germanben
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Aug 2005 Posts: 7
Posted: 08-30-05 20:44pm
I have never had that happened. But I
would try not chokin it for a while. And
by a while I mean like 6 weeks. And that
also means no sex to.
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saglamh23
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jun 2005 Posts: 61 Location: Türkiye
Why? Posted: 08-31-05 08:46am
Why are people so much different? My
little mind cant understand that. U want
to have more erections and ı want
less.(not much less of course, a more
controllabe one) why??? (because my
little thing is becoming bigger even when
I read something around here and I cant go
out of my room for a while). And also why
are some people so beautiful and some
ugly? And why do some have big and some
little (dicks or breasts or .....)? I
dont understand that . Or dont want to
understand. Why??? Does anyone know a
logical reason? (sorry for interrrupting
the discussion. But this question just
flashed in my mind and ı didnt want to
open a new one.)
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ProZackMI
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Aug 2005 Posts: 64
Posted: 08-31-05 13:51pm
It's natural to occasionally have
psychogenic erectile dysfunction due to
anxiety/depression, get bored of sexual
routine, or crave variance in sexual
activity. If you're bored with your
partner or her performance, or your
routine, you might have problems getting
aroused, but your problem sounds physical
rather than mental.
Loss of sensation is due to neurological
dysfunction most likely secondary to
disease or illness. Are you diabetic?
When you are able to get an erection, does
it get rock hard like it did before, or is
it just moderately hard? Are you on any
medication? Do you have any
neurological disorders like multiple
sclerosis, huntington's chorea, etc.?
Disease can effect the nerves and blood
vessels of the penis, which can diminish
one's ability to obtain or sustain an
erection.
See your doctor and rule out all physical
causes first, and if there are none, then
analyze the possible mental causes. If
it's mental, you may need a new
girlfriend, position, sexual activity,
routine, etc. Have her suck you, finger
your ass, etc. Play around and see what
excites you.
Good luck
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jakeharris74
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Aug 2005 Posts: 8
Posted: 08-31-05 15:53pm
Thanks for the reply.. But yeah I think
it would have to be physical. Because
even if I could keep a hard on 24/7. .
I think I produce such a pathetic amount
of semen or whatever that it takes so long
for me to be regenerated to go again that
it would just hurt my balls like crazy.
Like when someone has sex and afterwords
they lose their erection. For them it
takes maybe 10 to 20 minutes to gain that
sensation down there to want to have
another erection and go again, for me it
takes like a week. It's ridiculous.
And usually i'm in the mood for sex but
it's just like I have nothing down there
to use. Feels like I just got off most
of the time when actually I haven't got
off in days.
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LarryCrabb
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Sep 2005 Posts: 2 Location: Arkansas
Posted: 09-04-05 09:52am
All of the answers you have received from
others on this forum seem ligitimate to
me. However, no one has mentioned one of
the greatest possibilites and that is you
may have a low testrosterone condition.
Sexual desire (libido) does not originate
in the prostate gland where sperm can
buidl up. No matter how many sperm (or
seminal fuilds) have accumunlated one will
not have a greater desire fo sex. This
is because libido is ultimately controlled
by the pituitary gland which, in turn,
continually checks the level of
circulating testosterone and all your
other hormones, like thyroid,
insulin,adrenaline, etc. With
insufficient amounts of circulating and
bound testosterone, you are not very
likely to have erections or any desire for
sexual activity. Since testosterone is
normally manufactured in the testes (some
is manufactured in the adrenal glands),
there could be a deficienct in your
testicular function. Otherwise, I would
say your problem is psychological.
