For yourself, I suggest the bathtub! Something you can do as the water is filling... If you're flexible, you can scootch yourself up under the water coming out of the faucet, this is a free, hands-off vibrator! Plus you can always adjust the water temp to make it cool or warm. Apparently coolness gets some women off. About the only time I notice that is if my bf's fingers are wet, and some of it has evaporated when he puts his fingers inside of me.

Also in the bathtub: lie on your back, and use your fingers, or even a washcloth to stimulate yourself. The bathtub is a great place to try out things on yourself, like possibly anal. I know it's a wierd though to stick your own fingers in your anus, but... If you were to have anal, he'd be sticking his penis in there, and it's not even his own anus! So! Yeah.

I love to listen to erotic audio stories on my ipod and get off while listening to the story. This is very hot and because its on your ipod you can be anywhere...Even in the bath. I'm addicted. My man loves to listen as well so we share the ear piece and get off together. The other good thing is that because you're listening, you don't get distracted.

Good luck, hope this helps you.

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I absolutely love my removable showerhead. If you dont have one, you should get one. Put it on the massage setting or whatever you'd like, and just hold it over clit. Or move it around a little bit, whatever feels best. It blows me away.

i have always tended to masturbate the same way for my whole life (rubbing the area side to side or in circular motions) i often dont even take my pants off or anything so the stimulation is kinda indirect. but lately i've got bored of it.

i've been doing a lot of gentle direct clitoral stimulation. i get a lot of spit or a squirt of lube on my clitoris and take just one finger and really slowly and gently massage.... i am so sensitive that most of the time it is only neccessary to stimulate the clitoral hood itself. it's fantastic! the journey feels as good as the destination lol, which was never really the case before.

yeah, I've been doing a little bit of direct stimulation too. it is a little painful if not done right because the clitoris is so sensitive, but the sensations are totally different!

Due to over-sensitivity of the clitoris, indirect stimulation is often best. A good combination (although you will have to experiment with positions to get it just right) is to have weight or pressure on the mons (the mound of flesh directly above the pelvis) and some slight internal stimulation. A postion where this can be accomplished is to lay face-down on something like a stuffed toy pressed directly against your pelvis and insert one or two fingers in your vagina. Move front-and-back while maintaining your body weight on the object. The internal stimulation requires very little movement. The rocking motion will indirectly stimulate the clitoris and the vagina like the an earthquake going through the ground although you are not directly stimulating the clitoris. This is one of the only ways for a woman to achieve a "weight" feeling on her pelvis which is almost essential for some women to achieve an orgasm. The woman's muscular strength in her hands may not be adequate or may be too tiring to continually press down on her "mons" area while laying on her back and stimulating her vagina with her fingers. This is the same reason why many women cannot achieve an orgasm while being vaginally penetrated by a man from the rear. In that case there is no "weight" or "pressure" on the lower pelvis and no orgasm is achieved. This technique will also solve the problem of "no orgasm" for these women when being penetrated vaginally from the rear. In that case, simply rest the pelvis on something like the edge of an ottoman or a rolled up cushion or even a ball while kneeling face down over the object or laying face down. There is a dramatic difference in the sensation of being vaginally penetrated from the back when the women is creating a pressure on the front of the pelvis by resting her weight on an object.

When I was a young teen, I had no idea why laying on a pillow felt so good when I masturbated, but I found out years later XD it does help a lot.

I think I just got an erection while reading this, and I'm a girl.

Oh man, I know! So do I!! You know what the first thing all of us would do... wank.

I cross dress for events sometimes, and I once wore a sock in my underwear to add to the image... only problem was that in conjunction to my flattened breasts, the sensation of the sock was turning me on almost all night! I wanted to just leap on something and start humping Oo I'd definitely do it again next time I cross dress.

when ever possible oh yeah