Well what does ur heart tell u??

If u think u trust him then try giving it a go and if its unsuccessful then move on. He cud just b winding u up!

Sounds like he is keeping you on a string. I'd get rid of him. Get your number changed. If you really want this to stop, then you have to take some action yourself. Stop sleeping with him.

To me, it seems like he doesn't want to be in a committed relationship with you, he just wants to medical question you. That sounds harsh....And for that I am sorry, but your too good for a friend like that!

Reelsassy,
your asking for advice, here it is. I think changing your number is not a bad idea. Except this ex knows every way possible to get a hold of you. I think that you should tell him sternly that you do not want to talk to him and mean it. Then when he calls do not answer. It will be hard at first, but it will get better. Now none of this easier to say then do bs. Just do it. You have alot of people supporting you. Do it while they are still behind you. Not that they will ever leave, but a year of ex crap...It needs to end for your sake. Tell him he has had 1 yr to decide what he wants. Thats more then enough time. You dont need to not necessarily wait for him but move on with reelsassy. Dont blame talking to ex on anything other then cause thats what you want. Take on a new challenge :wink:

your best freind,
me