My ex now of a year doesn't stop calling
me, but he left me. Yes I call him on
occasion but definitely not as much as he
calls me. I want to be with him or over
him but I can't decide which. And of
course him calling and me sleeping with
him doesn't help. I don't know what I
should do because I feel really
comfortable with him but i'm getting sick
of this back and forth crap. Any advice
would be appreciated!! Please help
because I myself don't know what to
do!!!!!
Thanks!!!!
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solid_target
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Aug 2005 Posts: 5 Location: stratford
Posted: 09-01-05 08:42am
Well what does ur heart tell u??
If u think u trust him then try giving it
a go and if its unsuccessful then move on.
He cud just b winding u up!
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Sammy001
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jun 2005 Posts: 711 Location: ,
Posted: 09-01-05 08:45am
Sounds like he is keeping you on a string.
I'd get rid of him. Get your number
changed. If you really want this to
stop, then you have to take some action
yourself. Stop sleeping with him.
To me, it seems like he doesn't want to be
in a committed relationship with you, he
just wants to medical question you. That
sounds harsh....And for that I am sorry,
but your too good for a friend like that!
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da_kids
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Sep 2005 Posts: 1 Location: St.Paul
Posted: 09-08-05 15:31pm
Reelsassy,
your asking for advice, here it
is. I think changing your number is not a
bad idea. Except this ex knows every way
possible to get a hold of you. I think
that you should tell him sternly that you
do not want to talk to him and mean it.
Then when he calls do not answer. It will
be hard at first, but it will get better.
Now none of this easier to say then do bs.
Just do it. You have alot of people
supporting you. Do it while they are
still behind you. Not that they will ever
leave, but a year of ex crap...It needs to
end for your sake. Tell him he has had 1
yr to decide what he wants. Thats more
then enough time. You dont need to not
necessarily wait for him but move on with
reelsassy. Dont blame talking to ex on
anything other then cause thats what you
want. Take on a new challenge :wink:
