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Q: Help Me

asked by: amyl23 on August 28th, 2005

New User

Okay to start off with i'm 23 i've had sex since I was 18 but I have a problem. When ever I have sex with a guy they always seem to have alot of trouble getting it in and keeping it in. I don't really know why but after sleeping with different guys and they all have the same problem it can't be the guy it has to be me. Why am I like this? Is there anything I can do? I don't really know how to go off and tell a guy that its not him that it must be me because all the other ones have had this same problem. I can't think that this is normal if it was they would be more understanding but instead they general get kinda embarassed as though they are doing something wrong. Please can someone help me.

Replies(4)

Glamorgirli

replied on August 28th, 2005

Experienced User

It might be the positioning of the opening or something like that, maybe you should experiment with many different positions to see if that makes a difference.

amyl23

replied on August 28th, 2005

New User

Well I have tried different positions and if i'm on top its not as bad but the guy doesnt always like being on bottom. And I did forget to mention that it is generally somewhat painful when I have sex

Glamorgirli

replied on August 28th, 2005

Experienced User

Hmmm go to the gyno espically since there is pain, and tell them whats up/ they can probably help you determin whats wrong and give you some helpful options!

amyl23

replied on August 28th, 2005

New User

Well i've been to the gyno. I actually have another visit with him on tuesday i've had cervical cancer so i'm kinda a regular. I just always figured if anything was wrong he would mention it, and I don't feel to comfortable asking him about it so after this last guy i'm starting to wonder because I left his house this morning and while everything was going pretty great before the sex, it still felt like he was saying goodbye when I left.

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