Ok to make a long story short. I met a guy online we exchanged pics and what not and he saw me on cam. We talked for like a month or so. Just to get a general idea about this guy he is somewhat shy, has had a bad past(mom left him when younger brother died of down syn), he has a proff career in bball which in return he cant have much of a life outside of it, he has only had 2 gf in whole life. Ok so we talked for a while and I really fell inlove with him and he fell inlove with me( very quickly though). Told me he love me and we actually started dating b4 we met. Even went to the extreme of saying he wanted to marry me. I know too quick huh!! Well , we finally started talkin on the phone (he was so excited). So we talked like every other day. But on the phone he was very shy, he didnt tell me the same things as in chat. Im am also shy so I havent said much either. This might be important also one time when we were chatting I asked him about a picture I thought he sent me. But it wasnt of him , I thought it was (i have so many pics on my computer). He kinda got upset with me he was like " you talk to too may guys 4 me " " ur too good 4 me" which isnt the case at all. And I spilled my heart and said I only like him no one else and all that. So it was cool.
Ok I finally arranged to go see him. Everything was great! After the games he took me back to his place held my hand, kissed me , didnt say too much cuz were both shy( he initiated it all). That night he held me almost the whole night. We ended up having sex which I dont do, I was just caught up in the moment and we were kinda dating. Keep in mind he is 22 but when we had sex he really had no idea what he was doing ( he finished very quickly). I dont base relationships on sex so that was not an issue. Ok so the next day I went to see him play and afterwards we met up and went out to eat and then got a hotel room. We ended up having sex again. After he was done he just layed in the bed next to me real silent like something was wrong. Almost like he was embarassed of not having a sex drive. I really dont know? I asked him if I did anything wrong and he said no and turned over and kissed me like 5 times.
The next morning I had to leave so we said our goodbyes. He called on our way home and asked how the trip home was but wuz whispering cuz he was in trouble with his coaches. I was so happy I had such a great time and all and then. He wouldnt call. I mean he called like every three days but didnt say much. When we chatted we did it every night after his game.
Why wouldnt he call me? I mean he made it clear that he liked me by the way he was acting. Why all of a sudden is he changing his mind? Could it be his career ? Or theres no chemistry? If that is the case then why would he make it a point to kiss me and reach out and grab my hand. I really need some advice!!! Could he still like me and not call me? He has an issue with not thinking he meets my standards but he really does im just too shy to tell a guy how I feel . Im scared of rejection. Someone please tell me what to do???? Any advice will help!!!
