Joined: 28 Aug 2005 Posts: 2 Location: Markse, Cleveland
I Hate Her Boyfriend Posted: 08-28-05 02:31am
My best friend has been going out with
this lad now for a year and he is lovely.
He loves her too bits but lately he has
been really over protective and its making
her really upset. He controls everything
she does, she is not allowed (by him) to
go to a sleepover with us and everywhere
she goes he has to be there.
Also, these last few days he's been
getting really involved in my relationship
with my boyfriend. We have been together
on and off for 2 years and at the moment
we are really good. We have an honest,
open relationship. He doesn't understand
that. I can say other people are
attractive in front of my boyfriend but my
best friends boyfriend goes mad at me. He
told me im using my own boyfriend.
I dont know what to do but its really hard
to keep my mouth shut. I want to scream
at him so bad but I dont want my
bestfriend to hate me.
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Lennon
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jun 2005 Posts: 82 Location: Canada
Posted: 08-28-05 15:42pm
That guy has no right to sit around and
judge what you say about anything really
never mind what you and your boyfriend
have an understanding about. Who the hell
is he to say anything? Talk to your
friend about how he's getting on your
nerves that way. Controlling people are
useless really. They all end up children
when you confront them. Let your friend
know because you shouldn't be feeling
drained if she doesn't care. That's her
boyfriend, not your's and you shouldn't
take so much time worrying about her
feelings when she obviously doesn't seem
too worried about your's or she'd tell the
guy to shut up.
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theman
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jul 2005 Posts: 77 Location: South Wales, United Kingdom
Posted: 08-28-05 17:05pm
That's ridiculous. I feel sorry for you
and your friend. This guy sounds pretty
bad news. To be honest, if your friend
isn't happy with him (and from what it
sounds like, she isn't), then she should
finish with him anyway. He has no right
to control her like that, and any decent
guy wouldn't do. That's not to mention
trying to control you too. I reckon you
should talk to your friend, and just ask
her outright if she's happy. If she says
no (which I think she will), then tell her
to do something about it. Maybe get her
to give this guy an ultimatum; stop being
so over-protective, or they're finished.
If he truly likes her, he'll listen. Good
luck! :-)
