I am 39 and live in the uk/london,married
with children,and I love my wife and
family to bits.
Only thing is I get very jalousie at
times !!
Me and my wife both goes on the internet
she likes the chat rooms and messages
boards,me I like the message boards,
this is where the jalousie kicks in its
when she is in the chat rooms talking to
men and women ,its when she talks to the
men and they start to flirt with her
"saying that not all the men does" but
some do they even private message her or
they try to invite her to a private chat
room...You can imagine why they want to do
that!!!.
Well this is when my jalousie really
kicks in is when they do that...I know its
not her fault and she does ignore them
when they try.....But I still get that
horrible feeling of being
jalous.............
I have said to her not to stop going into
chat rooms "its not her or her problem
that I feel like this "...But when she
does it still hurts.
How can I stop feeling like this ?
Does anyone else feels like this?
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asdfjkl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jul 2005 Posts: 41 Location: British Columbia
Posted: 08-27-05 16:07pm
Haha I used to get so jealous when my
fiancee went dancing with her girlfriends.
Same idea. I still worry and I know that
people try and pick her up when im not
with her but I know that she wouldnt do
anything not just for me, but for her as
well. Of course I wont tell her not to
go, but deep down I dont want her to. You
just need to trust that she loves you and
wouldnt do anything to hurt you.
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wolfspirit
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Aug 2005 Posts: 3 Location: london
Posted: 08-27-05 17:13pm
I understand about trusting her and I know
she loves me but it still dont stop me
from feeling like this.....It hurts when
ppl "men" think they can try and chat her
up even when they know she is married,
its like taking the p**s....I know it
sounds stupid
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asdfjkl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jul 2005 Posts: 41 Location: British Columbia
Posted: 08-27-05 19:01pm
Id just be happy your not a 40 year old
single loser trying to chat up married
gals in a chatroom. At the end of the day
she is still your wife and goes to bed
with you. Pity all of the other guys that
are trying to talk her up. Easy to say,
yes.. But aside from her stopping theres
not alot one can do. Talk to her about
it, if you ask her to stop she may think
you're being controlling, as queer as it
sounds tell her how its affecting you.
put her in your shoes
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Lennon
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jun 2005 Posts: 82 Location: Canada
Posted: 08-27-05 19:18pm
I wouldn't worry about it too much. I
know a guy that met a girl on the internet
and left his wife to go live with her in
detroit. He was back in 2 weeks begging
his wife back. The thing with internet
"affairs" are it's all based on nothing
that has to do with living with someone so
it's all stupid really. Not that your
wife is doing that but most of the people
that probably come on to her have a fake
picture while living in their parents'
basement and have no real interest in
meeting her in person. Besides, if your
wife were like that, you wouldn't be
together right now. Let her have her
space as you like your's. You can't
really get on her for anything if you do
the same thing even if it is just posting.
She doesn't really know what you do
online so it's a 2 way street. Just trust
her........She deserves that.......The
same way you do.
