Boyfriend Left Me Because He Was Scared... Posted: 08-27-05 07:12am
When I told my boyfriend I was pregnant he
seemed really shocked and than I cried but
he told me everything was gunna be okay.
After a couple weeks went by I had to deal
with my mom, since i'm only 14. I went to
his house and his mom said that he moved
with his dad in bayridge. And I didnt
know what was going on, becasue I knew he
couldnt be thinking of helping with the
baby an hour away when he lived 2 seconds
from me before. Whenever I go to his
mom's house she never opens the door she
just look's out the window like I have
some kind of deseas or somthing and tells
me that anthony wants nothing to do with
me. Now my mom left me she moved in with
my aunt in upstate ny ( really far). Im
living with a friend now but other than my
friends I have no one. I dont know what
im gunna do I dont wanna have a baby, I
wanna go to school and everything I want
everything to be like I was never
pregnant, I want my mom back and anthony
back.
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~baby~g~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jul 2005 Posts: 221 Location: Ohio
Posted: 08-27-05 14:16pm
Wow, hun do you have anyway of contacting
your mother or bf? I think that's very
very selfish of all of them to ignore you
because your pregnant. Esp. You're bf,
that's his flesh & blood. That's a
really hard situation but at least you
have friends there to help you through
this. If I were you I would try to
contact you mother somehow, i'm sure
there's someway you can..And just talk to
her, unless she's the type of person that
doesn't listen to things like that. Do
you have any other family members that
would be willing to help you through this?
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BabiiMamaxO
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Aug 2005 Posts: 4
Posted: 08-27-05 14:51pm
I always try to call my aunts house where
my mom lives now but my aunt tells me I
cant call there anymore and thats the way
my mom is too. Believe me if u knew my
mom u would think she's ridiculous, she
only thinks of herself.. She sees me
being pregnant as embarressing her. She s
not a really good mom honeslty. My mom
and my aunt are basically all the family I
have.. My dad died when I was ten. I
seriosly have no one.
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 08-27-05 16:04pm
Where do you live? Town, state?
14 years old and you have no one.
Omgosh
my husband and I might be willing to take
you in if we could find a way to get you
here. We live in indiana--we have like 7
kids all ranging from 16 to 23 only 3 of
them are biologically mine. Seriously,
if you would be willing to move away from
wherever you live.
Let me know I am serious
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BabiiMamaxO
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Aug 2005 Posts: 4
Posted: 08-27-05 16:17pm
Thats like the sweetest thing I ever
heard!!!!!!! I live all the way in new
york in sunset park, brooklyn.... Thats
really far... Is it possible ?? Omg im
like crying right now I cant believe u
said that I dono how it could work its
like to good to be true!!!!
* my name's isabella de palma
than you thank you for even saying u'd do
somthing like that!!!!
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 08-27-05 16:26pm
I drove to washington one day to pick up a
car--so I kinda know where I am going.
Right now we are really short on money,
but husband is suppose to get a large loan
for his business around the middle of next
month if it goes thru--and yes we would if
anyway possible, even before the middle of
next month. Do you have email
address--mine is fatfami
ly@mintel.Net write me okay.
Ill talk to my family and see what we can
do, keep in touch please
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rainfalls
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Aug 2005 Posts: 24 Location: minnesota
How Sweet Posted: 08-28-05 01:43am
Wanted to cry reading all the posts
between you gals there.
Hang in there, I was 17 when I got
pregnant, and already dropped out of high
school.
I went back at 18, and graduated when I
was 20. There are so many programs out
there now, to help young mothers.
Trust me , life isnt over!! :) it may
feel like it, but it isnt, things always
get better even if it is hard to see
that.
As far as dad and mom, I guess I would
jsut let them both go for now, and not try
to do anything, they have made it pretty
clear where they stand. You are not
alone in this world when it comes to that
issue.
My mom frelt the same way, so I moved out
at 17, she raised us catholic and it was
bothersome to her. After my daughters
birth, she realized and changed her
mind.
It is tough thing to be pregnant at at
your age, even tougher for people close to
you to handle it too. Father probably is
scared to death. Time heals all
wounds.
If you really go, I can try to help with
the money to get you there too, just let
me know.
I just wanted to say that you really
deserve a medal or nobel price, whatever.
Because your humanity is just amazingly
generous !!! Man I never thaught there
were still people like this on earth. You
really made my day by helping poor
isabella out.
Btw isabella I hope you'll be allright
through all this ;-) much love &
repect.
Oh man i'm almost crying
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 09-08-05 23:01pm
Well, actually after my offer I never
heard from her. My kids range from 16-23
some mine some just adopted by love, and
they were looking forward to having a
little sister too. We were ready to
drive over and pick her up. I hope she
is okay though. That is a big and scarey
place to be alone.
