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Q: My Girl Is Bi, And I Hate It!
asked by: Riki-kun on August 27th, 2005
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Ok, not that I hate bi's I have a lot of friends who are. But I found out my girl was bi, at first I didn't have a problem but then it started to bug me, we went to del taco, and she said " oh I have some fun memories with this place, like what I said? " oh with this girl I used to date" this got me kinda sad, the whole time I was there I was thinking, you 2 probably made out and hugged and told eachother that you loved one another in here. The rest of the day I couldn't stop thinking about her being sexuall with another girl, and her sticking her tounge inside of her, and then kissing me with that tounge, and now when we go to the mall I constantly think she's checking other girls out, and it kinda in a way make me angry, why? Why does this mess with me so much? I don't want to think about it, I love her desperatley and I only want to see her happy, and now I constantly question my worth, can I satasfy her like a woman can? I'll never smell as nice, have creamy soft skin, or have boobs to grab on, oh and on or first make out session, she grabbed my chest, I later found out it was because she though that I had boobs! She said she thought that because she felt that no one could be as gentle and caring like a woman so she wanted to grab my boobs, I don't have boobs damint! I'm not a girl!.............Please help! :(
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sxcgirl_me
replied on August 27th, 2005
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I think its messing with you so much because you love her so much and cant think about her with anyone with you.

A lot of guys do it, its normal.

Maybe just talk to her about this and you can get it figured out.
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tima*
replied on August 27th, 2005
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You know I almost feel the same way I hate the idea that my husband has been through relationships I keep on imagining things like if he is doing something great to me ill just be like damn iam sure he has done itr to his ex then I feel really messed up ....Things keep on messing with my head iam so in love with him I can never imagine someone eles sharing the same feeling I have with him hellllll no. I guess its just love
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sxcgirl_me
replied on August 27th, 2005
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Oh god yeah.

Its a horrible feeling isnt it? :(

i try not to think of it though, thats enough for me.
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theman
replied on August 28th, 2005
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I used to go out with a bi, and it did cause some problems, but that was because she still fancied another girl, which I don't think is the case here. However, it's pretty unusual that she grabbed your chest and all... You might wanna keep a close eye on how she reacts to other girls and things, but don't deliberately go looking for things. If she's with you, she's with you. It's just the same as having a straight girl and wondering if she's cheating with another guy.
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