Joined: 27 Aug 2005 Posts: 1 Location: Victorville
My Girl Is Bi, And I Hate It! Posted: 08-27-05 04:47am
Ok, not that I hate bi's I have a lot of
friends who are. But I found out my girl
was bi, at first I didn't have a problem
but then it started to bug me, we went to
del taco, and she said " oh I have some
fun memories with this place, like what I
said? " oh with this girl I used to date"
this got me kinda sad, the whole time I
was there I was thinking, you 2 probably
made out and hugged and told eachother
that you loved one another in here. The
rest of the day I couldn't stop thinking
about her being sexuall with another girl,
and her sticking her tounge inside of her,
and then kissing me with that tounge, and
now when we go to the mall I constantly
think she's checking other girls out, and
it kinda in a way make me angry, why? Why
does this mess with me so much? I don't
want to think about it, I love her
desperatley and I only want to see her
happy, and now I constantly question my
worth, can I satasfy her like a woman can?
I'll never smell as nice, have creamy
soft skin, or have boobs to grab on, oh
and on or first make out session, she
grabbed my chest, I later found out it was
because she though that I had boobs! She
said she thought that because she felt
that no one could be as gentle and caring
like a woman so she wanted to grab my
boobs, I don't have boobs damint! I'm not
a girl!.............Please help! :(
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sxcgirl_me
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 372 Location: Sydney - Australia
Posted: 08-27-05 04:53am
I think its messing with you so much
because you love her so much and cant
think about her with anyone with you.
A lot of guys do it, its normal.
Maybe just talk to her about this and you
can get it figured out.
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tima*
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Aug 2005 Posts: 38
Posted: 08-27-05 05:40am
You know I almost feel the same way I hate
the idea that my husband has been through
relationships I keep on imagining things
like if he is doing something great to me
ill just be like damn iam sure he has done
itr to his ex then I feel really messed up
....Things keep on messing with my head
iam so in love with him I can never
imagine someone eles sharing the same
feeling I have with him hellllll no. I
guess its just love
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sxcgirl_me
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 372 Location: Sydney - Australia
Posted: 08-27-05 05:52am
Oh god yeah.
Its a horrible feeling isnt it? :(
i try not to think of it though, thats
enough for me.
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theman
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jul 2005 Posts: 77 Location: South Wales, United Kingdom
Posted: 08-28-05 17:17pm
I used to go out with a bi, and it did
cause some problems, but that was because
she still fancied another girl, which I
don't think is the case here. However,
it's pretty unusual that she grabbed your
chest and all... You might wanna keep a
close eye on how she reacts to other girls
and things, but don't deliberately go
looking for things. If she's with you,
she's with you. It's just the same as
having a straight girl and wondering if
she's cheating with another guy.
