i did u find out waht was wrong with ur dad,i have been havin bllod rushing feelings in my head

My doctor says my pressure is fine,but last week when they checked it,t was 144over95..........Im just not sure what is going on.....

For about 8 years be4 I was diagnosed with high blood pressure I knew I had it and every time I was checked at the dr's it would be fine. I got migraines atleast 2 times a month for 3 days at a time. Anyway if it is not high when they check it they say its not there. But the thing about it is, it goes up and down, and if youre like me and had low blood pressure first, then a normal reading for most pple is already hi for you. I found pounding in the head to be associated with my hi blood pressure, cooling off my head with cooler water helps a great deal. And the back of my neck.
I stand on the floor by the shower and bend over let the water from the shower just flow on my head as cold as I can stand, as long as I can stand it. It helps me a lot, especially when you live in humid climate.

I also have that symptom mostly feel it when I lie down to sleep .Kind of scarey :( .....I am new to ehealtforum but feel less alone when I read my symptoms here.. I have been dealing with dizzyness too .
Feel kind of like I have had a couple drinks in regard balance but completely coherent etc. Sometimes vertigo too...Not sure if this is inner ear or migraine so confused had a concussion and whiplash from car accident 2 years ago and feel as if it is related possibly.....Want my life back it is disabling.. It lasted 4 weeks this time so far...
Signed completely perplexed!!!...